[2006] UKSSCSC CIS_4096_2005 (04 May 2006)
CIS/4096/2005
DECISION OF THE SOCIAL SECURITY COMMISSIONER
"The claimant's partner satisfied the provisions of regulations 12 and 13(d) of the Income Support (General) Regulations 1987 as at 28 January 2005, the date on which they became a couple, and the Secretary of State is to reassess the claimant's income support accordingly."
"13. – (1) Notwithstanding that a person is to be treated as receiving relevant education under regulation 12 (relevant education) he shall, if paragraph (2) applies to him and he satisfies the other conditions of entitlement to income support, be entitled to income support.
(2) This paragraph applies to a person aged 16 or over but under 19 (hereinafter referred to as an eligible person) who –
…..
(d) of necessity has to live away from his parents and any persons acting in the place of his parents because –
(i) he is estranged from his parents and that person; or ….."
It is only if it is accepted that K falls within regulation 13 and thus establishes an entitlement to income support in her own right that the claimant and K will be entitled to the couples' rate of income support.
"Her disabled mother states she cannot look after her, however, she has supported her daughter for 16 years and no reason has been given why this should not be continued at least until the baby is born. Then [K] could claim in her own right when the baby is born.
"….I accept [K']s evidence. She told me that she left home because she could not get on with her mother, that her mother felt that she would be unable to cope with a child and that she should have an abortion. She told me that after she left the [claimant] she did not return to her mother because had she done so then her mother would tell her what to do with the baby, and that her mother was a control freak.
That led me to the conclusion that [K] was estranged from her mother but I saw no reason to suppose that alienation was mutual. [The mother's] reactions seems not at all unnatural.
Having considered the matter I have concluded that estrangement must be mutual, or at the least that [the mother] must feel alienated from her daughter. I am strengthened in that view by the observations to Mr Commissioner Henty in CIS/4498/2001 at paragraph 7. he writes, "there must in my judgment usually be something in the nature of mutual alienation". The relevant provision appears to be directed at the situation where, not to put too fine a point on it, the parent has rejected the child. That had not happened in this case, or at least the evidence does not establish that it did".
The tribunal chairman expressed his regret at having reached this decision. He duly granted leave to appeal on the grounds that the major issue is the interpretation of the word "estranged" in regulation 13(2) of the 1987 Regulations.
"I submit that a young person in the circumstances of this case is for example estranged from their parent(s) if they have no wish to live with them, or they have no wish for any prolonged physical or emotional contact with them or the parent(s) has similar feelings. There is no necessity for this feeling/desire to be mutual."
She asks me to set aside the tribunal's decision and remit the case to a new tribunal for further findings of fact, although in the event I have felt able to substitute my own decision. It is because of the perceived divergence over the years in the meaning of the word "estranged" that I am asked to give a full decision.
"Nor is it a proper use of language to regard local authorities being capable of being the objective instrument of estrangement, with its connotation of emotional disharmony." [My italics].
He made no further comment on estrangement. The focus of that decision was on the meaning of "person" under what is now regulation 13 of the 1987 Regulations.
"the word "estranged" is not defined in the legislation and therefore should be given its ordinary every day meaning. According to the Oxford English Dictionary the word "estranged" means "to alienate in feeling or affection". I submit that the evidence before the tribunal suggested that the deceased's son was not alienated in feeling or affection for his mother". [My italics]
The case did not deal with mutual alienation of affection but, as will be seen from the last sentence of the quotation, referred to the son being alienated in feeling or affection from the mother. This is the decision on which the submission writer to the tribunal relied at paragraph 5.8 at page 62, justifying the decision maker's decision on the basis that K "is not alienated in feeling or affection from her mother".
"The appropriate OED definition of "estranged" accepted in CIS/5119/97 is "to alienate in feeling or affection". I might put a gloss on that such as "not to be on speaking terms". The evidence before the tribunal points, I think not at so much as an alienation of feeling or affection – the emphasis being on "alienation" a concept which involves some form of positive consideration – but a drifting apart which to my mind connotes something short of alienation. Of course a long period of "drifting apart" may lead to the inference that there had been an alienation, but such is not, in my view, the case here."
Even the situation of "not being on speaking terms" may not be necessarily be regarded as requiring mutuality.
"7. There are slight indications of what "estranged" means both in R(SB)2/87 and CIS/511/97 [It] is not for instance "virtual estrangement", nor is the fact that the relation might be living abroad for long periods relevant either. There must in my judgment, usually be something in the nature of mutual alienation, and I put the point thus in paragraph 8 of CIS/5321/1998 [see paragraph 13 above, my italics].
…..Had such a breakdown in relations occurred before the onset of the mother's incapacity, then estrangement there would have been. But the incapacity by itself is not estrangement."
This is the case on which the tribunal relied, but on the facts it is plain to see why in that situation, the Commissioner emphasised a requirement for some mutuality, and he also stated this to be the "usual" position.
"10. I further hold that although the legislative test is whether a person not in receipt of a qualifying benefit was estranged "from" the deceased, so that the matter is to be looked at from that person's point of view rather than from the deceased's, [my italics] the adjudication officer has some grounds for submitting that both sides should be looked at. A young person may properly be held to be estranged from his parents where they have thrown him out, even though he may very much wish they had not. Even if the tribunal did look at what the mother did for her sons I am not satisfied that this was an illegitimate consideration."
This case involved a family where it was submitted that, although they continued to live at home with their mother, various children of the deceased were in fact estranged from her.
"5…The point at issue was whether, for the purposes of regulation 7(3)(c) the claimant's brothers and sister were "estranged" from their mother at the date of her death. On page 7 of form SF200, the funeral payment claim form, there is a printed question:
"Was the person who has died estranged from any of the surviving parents, sons or daughter? By estranged we mean that the family relationship has broken down. Please tell us how the family relationship had broken down."
6. The claimant had ticked the box saying "no" but in reply to the question as to how the family relationship had broken down wrote "my brother and sister live in Yugoslavia". On the basis that the claimant had ticked the box stating "no" the adjudication officer refused the claim. However, on the face of it if by "estranged" is meant that the family relationship had been broken down, the claimant was wrong to tick the box stating "no". If a person is living in relative peace and security in the United Kingdom while her family is in a country many miles away in the middle of a civil and international war…..I do not see how it can be maintained that normal family life and "the family relationship" have not broken down. The tribunal took the view that although there was physical separation there was no estrangement, although it gave no further explanation to this conclusion. In my view the tribunal's approach was unexplained and its conclusion was reached in error of law. The adjudication officer has argued, relying on CIS/5119/1997 that, estranged means "to alienate in a feeling or affection". I do not doubt that that is one possible meaning of the word. However for example the word "estranged" is defined in the Shorter Oxford Dictionary to include the meaning "to remove from what is accustomed; to keep apart from acquaintance with" and Chambers 20th Century Dictionary defines "estranged" to include the meaning of "to cut off, remove".
7. In the context of the regulations under consideration I see no justification for imposing an artificially restricted meaning and I have no doubt that the word "estranged" as used in regulation 7(3)(c) of the Social Fund Maternity and Funeral Expenses (General) Regulations 1987, on any reasonable application of the word, covers the facts in the present case".
"I would have said that the word "estranged" when used with reference to parent and child, connotes either some significant element of disharmony, or at the very least an absence of any of the affection which one would expect between them. It is not suggested that those conditions were present here, still less that any such feeling or absence of feeling were the cause of the Claimant leaving her mother's home".
He made no comment on the need for mutuality of any such feeling, but it was not necessary on the facts of the case.
"33. It does appear that there was severance of any unavoidable contact between the deceased and her parents for the six months prior to her death. There was also considerable anger and emotional disharmony. It does have to be said that there was not a diminution in concern nor in underlying affection. Mere disagreement is not enough to constitute estrangement, there must be something akin to treating as a stranger for a sufficient period of time……
34……. I have no doubt that it would have been the parents' wish to be reconciled with their daughter prior to her death…..However, there was no opportunity for that to happen…..and at the date of the deceased's death she remained estranged from her parents".
There is no suggestion here either of a requirement of mutuality in feeling for estrangement to exist.
(Signed) E A Jupp
Commissioner
(Date) 4 May 2006