CIS/2482/2005
"fears that if the CSA approached him [the father] he could turn violent, after no contact for two and a half years bad feelings, she fears & is scared of possible reprisals. Others that have had bad experiences with the CSA make her fearful … She is worried about the mental and emotional well-being of [her son]. [Filling in the relevant form] would leave her trapped if he came round as she has a mortgage on the flat and it would be difficult for her to move".
"… after the birth of my son, his father started to display symptoms that were not congenial to his past behaviour and what one would expect of a new father. He became withdrawn and his visits became less frequent and when he did visit it would conclude in arguments … His behaviour became more and more erratic and after a particular torrid incident at my home I decided that it was best he not come back as his behaviour was unpredictable and I was more concerned for the well-being of my son and me. I felt that if we continued in this vain I would develop post-natal depression or him possibly becoming violent."
"As I outlined in my last letter, once my son was born arguments became more and more frequent and the last incident was very frightening and traumatic for both my son and me. In a heated argument at my home, my child's father flung me against the wall and pushed his hand across my chest and neck so that I was unable to move. He hurled abusive words at me and once finished he stormed out of the house slamming the door behind him causing my hallway mirror to shatter. At this point my son who was a few years old was hysterical and I was left shaken. This was the torrid incident outlined in my letter, for reasons of dignity and intrusion pf my civil liberty and privacy I did not delve into the nature of the incident. For obvious reasons this is an occurrence which I would rather forget and one that I find most humiliating and sensitive to share with strangers … if I allow the DSS to contact the CSA it will have devastating effects and … my child will be at risk …".
46(3) … the Secretary of State shall consider whether, having regard to any reasons given by the [claimant], there are reasonable grounds for believing that [if he were to take action to recover child support maintenance from the non resident parent] … there would be a risk of [the claimant], or of any children living with her, suffering harm or undue distress as a result of his taking such action …
H. Levenson
Commissioner
11th November 2005