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HL/PO/JU/4/3/1107
HOUSE OF LORDS
COLLINS (A.P.)
v.
COLLINS
(A.P.)
Lord Reid
Lord
Evershed
Lord
Morris of
Borth-y-
Gest
Lord
Hodson
Lord
Pearce
27th
June 1963
Lord
Reid
MY LORDS,
In 1961
the Shropshire justices made an order that the Respondent be
no
longer bound to cohabit with the Appellant, her husband. This order
was
made because the justices found that he had been guilty of
persistent cruelty
to her. On appeal a Divisional Court (Sir
Jocelyn Simon, P. and Cairns, J.)
made an extensive and valuable
analysis of the authorities and held, chiefly
on the authority of
Kaslefsky v. Kaslefsky [1951] P. 38 and Eastland
v.
Eastland [1954] P. 403, that the facts proved did
not amount to cruelty. Their
decision was reversed by the Court of
Appeal (Willmer and Davies, LJJ.,
Harman, L.J. dissenting).
We have
before us notes of evidence given before the Ludlow justices
and a
note of their reasons. Both are admirably prepared, but they
cannot
be a full equivalent of a transcript of evidence and a
judgment in the High
Court. So it is even more necessary for us to
be cautious in attempting
to substitute a different view of the
facts from that taken by the justices. In
this case I think I
might have taken a different view of some of the facts
but I do
not find any sufficient grounds for rejecting the view of the
justices:
it may well be that if I had seen the witnesses and
heard the whole
of the evidence I would have agreed with them. So
I shall state briefly
the facts as they appear to have presented
themselves to the justices.
The
parties were married in 1946. They were then aged 43 and 38.
There
are two daughters born in 1947 and 1949. The husband owned a
farm
but he was unsuccessful and ran into debt. He sold the farm
in 1957 and
bought a house at Church Stretton. His wife had given
or lent to him
considerable sums and he transferred the house to
her. The wife has carried
on the house as a guest house for
elderly people. The husband did little
or nothing to help her in
running the house: if he had chosen to do so
he could have
obtained paid employment but he did not do so. He spent
a good
deal of time and money in trying to invent agricultural
machinery,
but the justices appear to have regarded this as a mere
excuse or as a
selfish indulgence. He was incorrigibly and
inexcusably lazy, and that has
been at the root of the whole
trouble. She was an active and capable
woman and with little
assistance she earned some £25 per week from the
guest
house, but this was little more than enough to meet expenses. I
accept
the view of Harman, L.J. that " all that he had done
is to hang up his hat
" in the hall". He was being
constantly dunned by creditors. She was
alleged to be liable for
some of his debts—it is not clear why. But certainly
creditors
were trying to make her pay and she did pay some of the debts.
There was
never any suggestion that he was deliberately trying to hurt
her
or that there were any violent quarrels. She does say that
her
husband was arrogant and bigoted and not a mild man and did
not think
of anyone else but himself. But the evidence shows
that what worried
her and made her ill was his refusal to try to
help her or to earn money
and clear off his debts. She says: "
Many times people have come to the
" door seeking my husband
because of long standing debts and also the
" County Court
bailiff has been to the door many years. This has worried
"
me to death and I cannot stand any more of it". It would seem
that
she would have been quite content if she could have put him
out of the
house and continued to maintain herself and her
children without being
troubled by him and his creditors. She
did refuse to cook for him or do
anything for him and he left for
a time but came back again. First she
tried to get a
non-cohabitation order without alleging cruelty, but then
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her health
began to be affected and she brought the present proceedings.
It
is true that he did obtain paid employment for a while but the
justices
apparently did not see that as a sign of genuine reform.
So we have
a normal, active and capable woman against whom nothing
is said
brought to a state of health when she can no longer earn her
living
or maintain her children solely by the shiftless and
selfish conduct of her
husband. We must take it that the justices
found that he was well aware
that his conduct was reducing her to
a physical and mental state where
she would no longer be able to
maintain herself or their children, that if
he had chosen to
behave as any decent minded man would this could easily
have been
avoided, but that in spite of his awareness of the consequences
he
chose to continue to sponge on her in selfish idleness. The question
is
whether the law of England requires that these two shall
continue to live
together and would regard her as guilty of the
matrimonial offence of deser-
tion if she left him. If that is the
law, then she must be told that it is her
legal duty as a wife to
sink into poverty and ill health and become with her
children a
charge on the State. But does the law not permit us to say that
such
conduct in such circumstances amounts to persistent cruelty?
No one has
ever attempted to give a comprehensive definition of cruelty,
and
I do not intend to try to do so. Much must depend on the
knowledge
and intention of the respondent, on the nature of his
(or her) conduct, and
on the character and physical or mental
weaknesses of the spouses, and
probably no general statement is
equally applicable in all cases except the
requirement that the
party seeking relief must show actual or probable
injury to life,
limb or health. So I shall first exclude the kinds of case
with
which I am not dealing, with the caveat that much of what I am
going
to say may not apply to them. First I exclude cases where
the respondent
acted with a desire or intention to hurt. That kind
of case was dealt with
in Jamieson v. Jamieson [1952]
A.C. 525, and I need say no more than that
if one spouse sets out
to hurt the other and causes injury to health the
means whereby
that happens can hardly matter. Then there are difficult
cases
where the conduct complained of would have caused no damage
to a
spouse normal in health and temperament, but that does not arise
here
because this wife was a normal, healthy woman. And there are
other
cases where the offending spouse suffers from some mental
abnormality.
The next case which we have to decide, Williams v.
Williams, is such
a case, and I shall not anticipate what I
have to say there. With such cases
I associate cases where the
offending spouse is too stupid or obtuse to realise
the effect
which his conduct is having on his wife or her husband. In
the
present case there is nothing in the husband's condition to
palliate his
conduct and he must be regarded as fully responsible
for it. And no question
arises here of the guilty spouse having
been provoked in any way.
This
appears to me to be a plain, uncomplicated case of a husband
fully
responsible for his conduct, knowing that it was injuring
his wife's health
and yet persisting in it, not because he wished
or intended to injure her but
because he was so selfish and lazy
in his habits that he closed his mind to
the consequences. The
facts of this case appear to me to go well beyond
the ordinary
wear and tear of married life—adopting Lord Asquith's phrase
in
Buchler v. Buchler [1947] P. 25. So the question must
be whether the
husband's conduct was of a kind which can in law be
called cruel and
whether the law requires an intention to injure
before there can be cruelty.
I shall
not make any extensive examination of the authorities now. I
intend
to look at a good many in Williams's case and I understand
that others
of your Lordships will do so in this case. Sometimes a
distinction is drawn
between conduct which is and conduct which is
not cruel in itself. That
distinction has some validity. Where,
for example, there is physical violence
of a grave and weighty
kind there is no need to look further, as I shall try to
show in
dealing with Williams's case. But more often the conduct must
take
its colour from the state of mind which lay behind it.
Sometimes it is said
that the matter can be left at large: that
although you cannot define cruelty
you can recognise it when you
see it: and that therefore the trial judge
should not be hampered
by legal niceties and refinements. But that appears
to me to be
placing too great a burden on the trial judge and to be likely
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to lead to
a multitude of appeals: for without further guidance
borderline
cases, which are numerous, will make a different
impression on different
minds, and moreover a judge must give
reasons—he cannot just say " I think
" that these
facts prove cruelty ".
Nevertheless,
I would try to reduce tests, rules and presumptions to a
minimum.
A judge does and must try to read the minds of the parties in
order
to evaluate their conduct. In matrimonial cases we are not
concerned
with the reasonable man as we are in cases of
negligence. We are dealing
with this man and this woman and the
fewer a priori assumptions we make
about them the better.
In cruelty cases one can hardly ever even start
with a presumption
that the parties are reasonable people because it is hard
to
imagine any cruelty case ever arising if both the spouses think and
behave
as reasonable people.
In the
present case I think that the Divisional Court went wrong
because
they proceeded on the authority of Kaslefsky's case.
They are in no way to
blame for that because they were bound to
follow it. But I do not regard
Kaslefsky's case as a good
guide, so I must now examine it and its implica-
tions. As was
inevitable in the existing state of the law, that case was
argued
and decided in an atmosphere of phrases and presumptions
more
picturesque than of easy practical application. The trouble
began in a way
which was not uncommon. The husband after the birth
of his son went
abroad for two and a half years on war service.
While he was away the
wife told him she wanted her freedom. She
and the child were living with
her mother and he returned to her
there in April, 1946. She was lazy and
sluttish and left much of
the care of the child to her mother and then to her
husband. She
refused sexual intercourse and there were some quarrels
about the
child ; and after a couple of years he met another woman and went
off
with her. Then he tried to get a divorce for cruelty. There was
some
evidence of injury to his health, but it was not clear that
that was really
caused by his wife's conduct. There was nothing to
shew that she knew
or must have known that her conduct was
injuring his health, or that the
real cause of his leaving her was
that he could not stand her conduct any
longer. There was some
evidence of failure to treat the child properly but
nothing that I
would regard as cruelty. On any view of the law I would
think that
cruelty had not been proved.
The case
was decided by the learned Commissioner on the ground that
there
was " no evidence before me that those acts were what are called
inten-
" tional acts or aimed specifically at the husband ".
In the Court of Appeal
the eminent Counsel engaged could not do
other than take the familiar line:
" The husband's health was
not injured merely by the natural development of
" the wife's
character but by her wilful and unjustifiable conduct towards
"
him ... a spouse must be presumed to intend the natural and
probable
" consequences of his or her own acts ... it is not
necessary ... to prove that
" the respondent intended to be
cruel, provided that her intentional acts
" amounted in fact
to cruelty "; and then they argued that the test of " in
"
some way aimed at", first introduced in Westall v.
Westall, 65 T.L.R. 337,
was obiter and inconsistent with
Squire v. Squire (1949] P. 51.
Bucknill
L.J., with whom Somervell L.J. agreed, said (at p. 44): " I
venture
" to think that that is one of the tests which has to
be applied: is the conduct
" of the wife, unless done for the
express purpose of injuring the health of the
" husband,
innocent in the sense that it is justified or justifiable under the
"
circumstances? In cases such as refusal of sexual intercourse, or
sheer
" laziness, or neglect of a child, I think that is
conduct which is innocent, so
" far as any charge of cruelty
is concerned, unless it is done for the express
" purpose of
causing injury to the health of the complaining spouse ".
That
appears to me to go much too far, but I need not develop the
point because
in the next paragraph he appears to me to have
watered it down by agreeing
with what Denning L.J. had said in
Westall: "... intention is an element in
" this
sense, that there must be conduct which is, in some way, (my
italics)
" aimed by one person at the other ".
Lord
Denning elaborated what he meant by " aimed at ". First it
included
" action or words actually or physically directed at
him ". I am not at all
sure what this is meant to include.
Suppose a husband speaks derogatory
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words to a
third person in his wife's presence. They are physically directed
at
her: they impinge on her ears. But in Kaslefsky's case it
appears to have
been accepted that cruelty to a child in the
mother's sight and presence is
not aimed at her unless done with
the express purpose of hurting her. And I
cannot think that
speaking derogatory words to a stranger can be cruelty if
brutality
to the child is not. So this test seems too vague to be satisfactory.
Then Lord
Denning deals with cases where there is only " misconduct
"
indirectly affecting him or her, such as drunkenness, gambling or
crime ".
Then he says there must be in some part " an
intention to injure the other
" and inflict misery on him or
her ". But he goes on to say: " Such an
" intention
may readily be inferred from the fact that it is the natural
"
consequence of the conduct, especially when the one knows, or it has
been
" brought to his notice what the consequences will be,
and nevertheless he
" does it, careless and indifferent
whether it distresses the other or not".
There are many cases
where such an inference is justified but there are
many where it
is not. The drunkard may know, at least in his sober
moments, what
damage he is doing to his wife. The gambler sees his wife
and
children deprived of proper food and clothing. But it must be a
rare
case where either desires or intends to hurt his wife.
Why should
we have to drag in intention at all? It seems to me a very
poor
defence to say: " I know the disastrous effect on my wife of
what I
" have been doing. Probably I could have resisted
temptation if I had
" really tried. But my conduct is
innocent because I had not the slightest
" desire or
intention to harm my wife. I have acted throughout from pure
"
selfishness ". And the evidence may make it quite clear that he
had no
intention at all of causing pain to his wife. If he knew,
or the evidence
shews that he must have known, the effect of his
conduct, if there was no
justification or excuse for it, if the
effect was really serious, if the wife
was not unusually sensitive
and he had not reached the stage of mental
disorder, why does
intention matter? As I have said, I am not dealing
with cases
where the wife from illness or temperament cannot stand what
an
ordinary woman could be expected to tolerate, or where for any
reason
the husband's responsibility is diminished. I am dealing
with cases like
this case where nothing of that sort can be said.
If it can the case becomes
much more complicated. And I wish to
make it quite clear that I am not
criticising Lord Denning.
Sitting in the Court of Appeal he was bound
by a host of
authorities which do not bind us. Probably his attempt
at
rationalisation went as far as he was entitled to go, but I do
not think that
anyone would say that the present state of the law
is satisfactory. I shall
try to explain why I think that is so.
"
Aimed at" is a phrase in ordinary use understood by everybody.
If
you aim at something you intend to hit it and if you hit
something un-
intentionally you have not aimed at it. Intention is
a state of mind. You
cannot see into other people's minds but
ordinary people have little difficulty
in inferring intention from
what a man does and says viewed in light of the
circumstances.
Juries deal daily with the burden of proof of intention,
whether
it has to be proved beyond reasonable doubt or on a balance
of
probability. And a man can intend to kill two birds with one
stone.
If it were
the law that an intention to hurt is a necessary element in
cruelty
there would be no difficulty in theory. The only
difficulty would be to
evaluate the evidence and decide whether
the burden of proving such
intention had been discharged. But no
one now supposes that that is the
law. Everyone agrees that
something short of proof of actual intention
will do. If the test
is that conduct must be " in some way " aimed at
the
petitioner I must admit that I find that difficult. In real
life either you are
aiming at something or you are not: in law
either you have proved an
intention or you have not. But aimed "
in some way" takes us into a
region where you assume or
presume an intention which has not been
proved because it cannot
be inferred as a fact from the evidence. But
you do not treat a
presumed intention as equivalent to a proved intention.
Jamieson's
case shews that a proved intention to hurt can make conduct
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cruel
where a mere presumed intention would not. Presuming an
intention
which has not been proved as a fact causes such
confusion that I will with
your Lordships' permission, deal with
this matter in some detail.
Sometimes
it is said that a person must be presumed to have intended
the
natural and probable result of what he did. That, if taken
literally,
must mean that it would be irrelevant to prove that in
fact he did not intend
that result: it would introduce a purely
objective standard not depending
at all on the state of his mind.
In fact people often intend something
quite different from what
they know to be the natural and probable result
of what they are
doing. To take a trivial example, if I say I intend to
reach the
green people will believe me although we all know that the
odds
are ten to one against my succeeding; and no one but a lawyer
would
say that I must be presumed to have intended to put my ball
in the bunker
because that was the natural and probable result of
my shot Irrebuttable
presumptions have had a useful place in the
law of tort in facilitating the
change from a subjective to an
objective standard. For a long time it
was thought that, at least
in theory, intention or mental state of some kind
was a necessary
ingredient in negligence. But life would be impossible
in modern
conditions unless on the highway and in the market place we
were
entitled to rely on the other man behaving like a reasonable man.
So
we now apply a purely objective standard. The other man may have
been
doing his best and he may not realise that his best is not good
enough,
but if he causes damage by falling short of the ordinary
standard he must
pay. In matrimonial affairs we are not dealing
with objective standards,
and it is not a matrimonial offence to
fall below the standard of the reason-
able man (or the reasonable
woman). We are dealing with this man and this
woman.
There appears to be no recent authority which expressly approves
an
irrebuttable presumption in such cases, so I pass to the next stage.
What is
most often said is that there is a presumption in cruelty cases
that
the respondent intended the natural and probable results of his
conduct,
but that that presumption can be rebutted. That is
equivalent to saying
that proof of the natural and probable
consequences transfers the onus
of proof so that now the
respondent must prove that he did not intend that
result. I
suppose that on this theory the respondent would have to
produce
evidence, including his own, sufficient to shew that on a
balance of probability
he did not intend harm to the petitioner,
and of course it might be more
difficult to prove that he did not
intend a likely result than to prove that
he did not intend an
unlikely result, but quite often he could prove it. A
person
accused does not have to prove his defence beyond reasonable doubt.
I
think that Lord Denning must have had something of this kind in
mind
when he said that such an intention " may readily be
inferred ". But in
many authorities the objective test seems
to persist. In the present case
Willmer, L.J. stated the
propositions of law which he deduced from the
decided cases. He
said " there must always be some element of intention
"
in relation to the impact of the conduct complained of in the other
"
spouse . . . such an intention may in a proper case be inferred
where,
'' for instance, the conduct complained of is persisted in
... in circumstances
" in which any reasonable person would
appreciate that it was likely to
" injure the other spouse.
For any spouse may be presumed to intend the
" natural
consequences of his own behaviour ". That seems to me to be
very
vague. I do not blame Willmer, L.J. because he was trying to sum
up
the authorities and it is impossible to reconcile a good deal
of what has been
said in the various decisions. But what is "
a proper case " and when
" may " the presumption be
applied? This is as vague as " in some way
" aimed at "
It is said that although this is not a definition it is a
useful
yardstick. But it is a very elastic yardstick, and
practical people do not use
elastic yardsticks except perhaps for
nefarious purposes. All this seems to
me merely to distract our
attention from the real problem.
It appears
to me that the time has come to decide whether or not
intention
really is a necessary element in cruelty. I shall
have more to say about
that in Williams's case. If it is
a necessary element, then we must go by the
evidence. If the
evidence shews, as it often does, where the respondent is
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obtuse and
selfish, that it is extremely improbable that he had any
real
intention to hurt his wife, then we must either refuse a
remedy or say that
something else will do instead. Judges, bound
by the existing state of the
law, have shewn much ingenuity where
justice demands a remedy but where
it is extremely improbable that
the respondent had any intention to cause
harm. The objective test
of what a reasonable man would have had in mind
slips in—though
it is quite obvious that no reasonable man could have
behaved as
the Respondent did. Once we say that the state of this Respon-
dent's
mind does not matter, and proceed, against the weight of evidence,
to
attribute to him an intention which he did not have, we base
ourselves
on a fiction and that is bound to lead to trouble.
However useful fictions
may have been in the past in other
branches of the law, they seem to me both
unnecessary and
confusing in this realm of cruelty. I must pay this tribute
to
learned judges in recent years: in spite of the difficulties created
by all
these artificial tests, there are very few reported cases
where they have not
been circumvented when justice required that.
Indeed, the only decision
cited to us which on a more direct
approach would seem to be wrong on
the facts is Eastland v.
Eastland [1954] P. 403, where the test in Kaslefsky
was
applied too literally. With regard to other decisions, a few may
be
doubtful, because sometimes the full facts do not emerge very
clearly. I
must, however, say a little about Lang v. Lang
(1955] AC 402. It is not an
easy case. There had to be an
agreed single judgment and such judgments
are not infrequently
obscure. The husband was undoubtedly cruel. But
cruelty was not a
ground of divorce in Victoria and it was necessary to
establish
constructive desertion. The Act required that " the respondent
has
" without just cause or excuse wilfully deserted the
petitioner ". So the ques-
tion was whether the constructive
desertion was " wilful "—whether there was
animus
deserendi. A great deal was said about intention and
presumption,
but as I read the judgment the facts were quite
simple. The man deliberately
ill-treated his wife. He knew that
this was likely to cause her to leave him
but he desired or hoped
that she would not leave. He did not act with the
intention of
driving her out, but he acted with the knowledge that that was
what
would probably happen. There are references to what a reasonable
man
would have known ; but it is said that this man must have
known,
which I take to mean that it was proper to hold on the
evidence that he did
know. So in the result his desire to keep his
wife or lack of intention to
drive her out was irrelevant. The Act
said nothing about intention: it used
the word " wilful".
So the decision was that if without just cause or
excuse you
persist in doing things which you know your wife will probably
not
tolerate, and which no ordinary woman would tolerate, and then
she
leaves, you have wilfully deserted her, whatever your desire
or intention
may have been. That seems to me to be in line with
what I am now submit-
ting to your Lordships is the law in cases
of cruelty.
I shall
now re-state briefly the result at which I have arrived. If
the
conduct complained of and its consequences are so bad that the
Petitioner
must have a remedy, then it does not matter what was
the state of the
Respondent's mind. That I shall develop in
Williams's case. In other cases
the state of his mind is
material and may be crucial.
Jamieson's
case deals with deliberate intention to cause suffering,
and
Kelly v. Kelly L.R. 2 P. & D. 59, shews that
a groundless belief that such
conduct is justified is no defence.
I do not have to deal with cases where
the petitioner is partly at
fault or cases like King v. King [1953] A.C. 124.
Nor
do I have to deal with the very difficult class of case where from
illness or
temperament the petitioner is unduly demanding or
unusually sensitive.
I am
dealing with a spouse normal in mind and health who has been
reduced
to ill health by inexcusable conduct of the other spouse persisted
in
although he knew the damage which he was doing. These matters must
be
clearly proved. For reasons which I have given I must hold that
they
have been proved in this case. They appear to me plainly to
establish
persistent cruelty. I am therefore of opinion that this
appeal should be
dismissed.
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Lord Evershed
MY LORDS,
I concur
with the opinion which my noble and learned friend, Lord Reid.
has
just expressed and think accordingly that this appeal should be
dismissed.
My Lords, I am disposed to agree with the view of
Davies, L.J. in the
Court of Appeal that the Respondent's claim
might colloquially be described
as a " thin case ". But
the matter in issue being essentially a question of
fact, one
considerable difficulty presented to the Appellate Courts and,
now.
to your Lordships' House emerges from the fact that no full
note was taken
of the evidence given before the magistrates, nor
did the magistrates express
their conclusion in the form of a
reasoned judgment. There was available
to the Divisional Court and
to the Court of Appeal and there is now available
to your
Lordships only a brief record of the proceedings before the
Shrop-
shire Court taken, in accordance with the normal practice
in such cases, by
the clerk to the magistrates. Certain reasons
were, however, clearly formu-
lated for the Magistrates on the 5th
October, 1961, and in the circumstances
I have thought it proper
and helpful to set out in terms the first five
of such reasons.
They were as follows: —
" (1)
That at the time of the marriage the husband was heavily in
"
debt, unbeknown to the wife, and that throughout the marriage the
"
husband has not made any real or sustained effort to repair his
"
financial situation; but on the contrary has involved his wife in
his
" financial affairs to her detriment;
" (2)
That since 1957 the husband, in spite of his wife's pleas for
"
him to do so, has persistently and wilfully refused to undertake
paid
" employment, and that he has not made any real effort
to support
" his wife and children ;
" (3)
That the constant worry and anxiety over the husband's debts
"
and his wilful refusal to get work has seriously affected the
wife's
" health, and that she has good reasons to fear
permanent impairment
" of her health, which would affect her
capacity to keep herself and her
" two daughters.
" (4)
That in September, 1960, the wife told the husband that she
"
could no longer stand the strain imposed by his behaviour;
" (5)
That apart from the complaint of the wife, the husband should
"
have known that his conduct was having a serious adverse effect on
"
his wife's health. We are satisfied that any reasonable man would
"
have appreciated this, and that the husband must have known that a
"
continuance in his course of conduct would have an injurious effect
"
on his wife's mental health ".
In their
sixth reason (which I can properly summarise) the magistrates
stated
that they rejected entirely Mr. Gollins's submission that what he
said
he had done in looking after the garden and the poultry at
the matrimonial
home at Rivenhall was a fair and proper
contribution on his part. They
conclude by the statement of their
view that it was the " clear duty " of
Mr. Gollins to
make a real contribution to the support of his family and
that "
his failure to do so was the direct cause of his wife's ill health ".
Having
regard to the terms of their recorded reasons as well as to
the
record of the evidence which on two occasions the magistrates
heard (and
1 do not forget that the magistrates had the great
advantage of seeing and
hearing on both occasions both Mr. and
Mrs. Gollins), I agree with my noble
friend, Lord Reid, and with
the majority of the Court of Appeal in thinking
that no sufficient
grounds have been shown for disabling the conclusions of
fact
reached by the magistrates or for holding that the magistrates in
any
respect misdirected themselves in regard to the law.
The facts
of the case which have been rendered available to your Lordships
have
been fully stated in the Opinion of Lord Reid and I do not repeat
them.
It is not in doubt, according to the express conclusions of
the magistrates,
and has indeed not been disputed, that as a
result of the conduct of her
husband to which she has been
subjected, the health of the Respondent has
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been
substantially affected, so that the essential requirement for the
establish-
ment of a charge of cruelty, according to the decision
of your Lordships'
House in the case of Russell v. Russell
([1897] AC 395) has been satisfied.
It also clearly appears
that the Respondent was and is a woman of (at least)
normal health
and intelligence. She was before her marriage a trained
nurse and,
having regard to her age (namely 39 and 41) at the time when
she
respectively bore the two children of her marriage, her physical
stamina
must have been certainly no less than average. She was
also fortunately
possessed of some private means, though it is
clear that her resources have
now been wholly involved or expended
in relief of her husband's indebted-
ness or its consequences. She
discovered shortly after her marriage that her
husband, then a
farmer, was in fact in grave financial difficulties. His farm
was
sold and the Respondent has since maintained the home not only
for
her husband but for herself and her two children of the
marriage by
carrying on, without any help whatever, financial or
otherwise, from her
husband a guest house for elderly people. In
so doing she has been from
time to time gravely embarrassed by the
claims of the creditors of her
husband, who has never made the
smallest contribution to her home, or to
the maintenance and
up-bringing of the two children ; and it is now indeed
apparent
that, if she is denied the relief which she has claimed, she will
be
incapable of further maintenance of the home for herself and
her children
and, as my noble friend has stated, will " sink
into poverty and ill health
" and become with her children a
charge on the State ". It may, therefore,
fairly be said (if
these conclusions of fact are justified) in the words of
Sir
William Scott in the old case of Evans v. Evans (1 Hag. Con.
35) that
her husband's conduct is " such as to show an
absolute impossibility that
" the duties of the married life
can be discharged " ; or at least in Lord
Normand's language
that Mr. Gollins was guilty of " unwarranted
"
indifference " to the sufferings of his wife.
It was,
however, the view of the Divisional Court, as expressed by
Sir
Jocelyn Simon, P., that there was no evidence showing that the
husband's
conduct, however selfish and irresponsible, was "
aimed at" his wife in
any sense and that therefore on the
authority particularly of the case of
Kaslefsky v.
Kaslefsky ([1951] P. 38) the Respondent's charge of cruelty
could
not be sustained.
My Lords,
like my noble friend, Lord Reid, I must not be taken to be
casting
doubt upon the correctness in fact of the decision of the Court
of
Appeal in the Kaslefsky case, but (also like my noble
friend) I am, with all
respect to those who take or have expressed
the opposite opinion, unable
to accept the view that in order to
satisfy a charge of cruelty in a matri-
monial cause it must be
shown that the conduct of the spouse charged was
in some real
sense "aimed at" the other party to the marriage. Such
a
view has, as I understand, emerged from the premise that "
cruelty " in
matrimonial contests involves essentially a
quality of malignity in some sense
on the part of the spouse
charged. Upon this premise appears to have
depended, naturally
enough, that there must have been some intention to
injure the
other party, in other words that the conduct of the party
charged
(whether positive or active on the one hand or, upon the
other, indifferent,
selfish or negative) must in some sense have
been " aimed at" the other
spouse. My Lords, for reasons
which I more fully give in my Opinion in
the case of Williams
v. Williams, I am unable to accept the premise that
"
cruelty " in matrimonial proceedings requires or involves of
necessity the
element of malignity—though I do not, of
course, doubt that if malignity
be in fact established it would be
highly relevant to a charge of cruelty. In
my opinion, however,
the question whether one party to a marriage has
been guilty of
cruelty to the other or has treated the other with cruelty
does
not, according to the ordinary sense of the language used by
Parliament,
involve the presence of malignity (or its equivalent);
and if this view be
right it follows, as I venture to think, that
the presence of intention to
injure on the part of the spouse
charged or (which is, as I think, the same
thing) proof that the
conduct of the party charged was " aimed at" the
other
spouse is not an essential requisite for cruelty. The
question in all such cases
is, to my mind, whether the acts or
conduct of the party charged were
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"
cruel" according to the ordinary sense of that word, rather than
whether
the party charged was himself or herself a cruel man or
woman. Indeed,
for reasons which I shall more fully state in my
Opinion in the Williams
case, the introduction of the
notion of " intention " into the jurisdiction with
which
your Lordships are now concerned has led to no little confusion
and
difficulty which, as I hope, may now be laid to rest. The case
where one
party to a marriage sets out by deliberate means to
injure the other is no
doubt simple; but equally it is, I should
think, relatively rare. More
frequent (and in its effects more
often hurtful and insidious) is such a case
as the present where
the " intention " of the party charged, if it exists
at
all, is no more and no less than an " intention " to
gratify his or her purely
selfish inclinations. So it is that, as
it seems to me, the Courts in adopting
the necessity of "
intention " have, inevitably in the cause of justice, had
to
introduce the notion of presumed intention and thereby to have
intro-
duced into Divorce Law quasi-philosophical difficulties
which have clouded
the law and given to the word " cruelty "
a sense which is not justified by
its ordinary significance.
For the
reasons which I have attempted to state, I therefore conclude with
my
noble and learned friend, Lord Reid, and as the majority of the Court
of
Appeal thought, that no good reason has been established for
disabling
the conclusion of the magistrates. I think, in other
words, that if the reasons
formulated by the magistrates were
justified, then applying the common
sense of the English language
and the ordinary standards of human conduct
the Respondent made
good her charge of cruel treatment, and I think
accordingly that
this appeal should be dismissed.
Lord Morris of Borth-y-Gest
MY LORDS,
Though a
question as to whether one person has been guilty of
persistent
cruelty to another must ultimately be determined as an
issue of fact, it is
eminently desirable that the approach to the
determination should be guided
by principles of general
application. This is not to say that some precise
definition of
cruelty should, for the purposes of judicial determinations,
be
attempted to be given. It has long been recognised that it
would be unwise
to make any such attempt (see Jamieson v.
Jamieson [1952] A.C. 525, 550).
There are, however,
certain conceptions which are basic. Most people have
the same
general ideas in mind when they speak of cruelty or of kindness.
If
someone is giving thought to a question as to whether a person
has
been cruel he will probably first consider what it is that the
person has
done or has omitted to do, and will then decide,
perhaps largely as a
matter of opinion, whether the act or
omission does or does not fall within
his conception of cruelty.
In the administration of the law the matter
cannot be left to be
dealt with on quite such broad lines. Cruelty is a
matrimonial
offence and an allegation of cruelty is a serious one. To be
found
guilty of cruelty involves not only a slur which would be
deeply
wounding to any self-respecting person but also involves
certain specific con-
sequences. The matters complained of as
amounting to cruelty must, there-
fore, extend much beyond the
trivial or the casual. They must be serious
matters. If they were
not they surely could not be the foundation for an
order affecting
the matrimonial relationship. When in 1790 Sir William
Scott (in
Evans v. Evans, 1 Hag. Con. 35) said that the causes
must be " grave
"and
weighty" he laid down a principle which has never been
challenged.
Even the particular words that he used in expressing
the principle have been
employed in subsequent periods with a
measure of tenacious fidelity. The
conduct complained of must,
therefore, go beyond what the particular com-
plaining spouse
ought reasonably in all the circumstances to have been
expected to
tolerate. I use these words because, as Willmer, L.J., points
out
in his judgment in the present case, it is necessary to consider what
was
the impact of the personality and conduct of one spouse upon
the mind
of the complaining party (see Usmar v. Usmar
[1949] P. 1 and King v. King
[1953] A.C. 124.
130) and also because, as Pearce, J. (as my noble and learned
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10
friend
then was) said in Lauder v. Louder [1949] P. 277, 308,
" in a cruelty
" case the question is whether this
conduct by this man to this woman, or
'"
vice versa, is cruelty ".
Not only
must the matters complained of be serious, they must also be
such
as to have caused injury to health or a reasonable apprehension of
such
injury (Russell v. Russell [1897] AC 395).
To these
requirements I would add that the acts or conduct or
omissions
complained of must have been intentional and not
accidental. Some
occurrence accidentally brought about by one
spouse may cause hurt and
misery to the other, but it would not be
rational to convict the former of
cruelty.
The range
of the reported decisions in cruelty cases, so carefully and
usefully
reviewed, if I may respectfully say so, in the judgment of
the
learned President, reveals that difficulties often arise in
those cases where no
positive wish to hurt is apparent and in
those cases where conduct causes
hurt indirectly. In the difficult
spheres covered by such cases there has
naturally been a desire to
seek a principle and in this search dependence
has often been
placed upon particular phrases employed by learned judges
in
expressing their conclusions in particular cases. In the result it
has
sometimes happened that a phrase or an aphorism coined in one
case has
become doctrine in the next. My Lords, I would favour as
much simplicity
as is reasonably possible and as much freedom as
is reasonably possible
from any limiting words or phrases. As
Harman, L.J., pointed out in his
judgment, the only question which
in the end arises for decision is—Did
the conduct of this
husband amount to cruelty to this wife?
Some
conduct may be shown to be conduct which is directed to or
towards
or which is in relation to or which is in respect of the other
spouse.
I am intending my words to be mere servants to express a
meaning. Other
and different words would do. If such conduct is
wilful and intentional,
then I would consider it fair that it
should be judged by relation to those
standards to which a
reasonable spouse in all the particular circumstances
of the
particular marriage ought to have conformed. If such conduct
is
wilful and intentional, then there either would be or there
should have
been knowledge of any injurious effects resulting from
it. Some cases
would be covered by the oft-quoted words used in
1919 by Shearman, J.,
in Madden v. Madden:—"
I do not question . . . that he had no intention
" of being
cruel . . . but ... his intentional acts amounted to cruelty ".
I
agree, therefore, with Willmer, L.J., when he said: —"
Thus, any course of
" conduct intentionally pursued, provided
it has some impact on the other
" spouse, may in appropriate
circumstances justify a finding of cruelty ".
There may,
however, be conduct which does not appear to have been
directed to
or towards or to have been conduct in relation to or in respect
of
the other spouse. In such cases it is sometimes said that the "
impact "
of the conduct is not direct. If such conduct was
wilful and intentional
(and satisfied the conditions to which I
earlier referred) cruelty could be
established if there had been
an intention to injure the other spouse or if
with knowledge of
its effect it was persisted in or continued. A continuance
of some
particular conduct after receiving a warning that it was
adversely
affecting the other spouse could amount to cruelty.
Further, the facts and
circumstances might be such that any
reasonable person must have known
that injury to the other spouse
would be the result of the conduct: if so,
the wilful pursuit of
the conduct would by inference involve an intention
to cause the
injury. The process of drawing an inference does not involve
imputing
an intention that did not in fact exist but involves deducing
from
proper material that an intention did exist. If the conduct itself
is
wilful and intentional and if either there is knowledge that it
will probably
harm the petitioner or if, applying the standards of
a reasonable person
in the circumstances of the particular case,
there must have been such
knowledge, then, a charge of cruelty
could be maintained. I say " could "
because in the end
it must be shown as a question of fact that the conduct
is such
that it can properly and rationally be stigmatised by the word
"
cruelty " using that word in its ordinary acceptation.
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My Lords,
the divergences of view which are revealed in the judgments
in the
Divisional Court and in the Court of Appeal seem to me to
arise
mainly in the application of the law to the facts. The facts
are very clearly
set out in the judgment of the learned President,
and I need not refer to
them in complete detail. My study of them
leads me to the same conclusion
as was reached by the learned
President and Cairns, J., in the Divisional
Court and by Harman,
L.J., in the Court of Appeal. From the time of their
marriage in
1946 until the year 1957 the parties lived at the farm. Though
the
husband farmed unsuccessfully and was considerably in debt and
though
the wife was caused much distress by her discovery in 1947
of the grave
financial situation then existing, there is no
suggestion that the husband
at any time offered any sort of
physical harm to her or that he was in any
way aggressively unkind
to her or that he was in any way intemperate.
Nor does the
evidence show that at any time he had any wish to harm her.
That
has not been suggested. Furthermore the wife was not, in fact, at
any
time short of money. The farm was sold in 1957. The property wa*
then
purchased which thereafter the wife ran as a guest house. The
house
was purchased in his name and there was a mortgage on it.
The mortgage
had been partly redeemed by January, 1961, and in
1960 the house was
handed over to the wife. Undoubtedly she had a
hard and strenuous
and worrying time. She had been involved by her
husband in his debts
and she had continuously to work to support
herself and the children and
to pay mortgage sums. He made no
financial contribution. His help in
regard to the running of the
guest house does not appear to have been at
all adequate. His
activities in seeking to make inventions of agricultural
machinery
did not produce any money for the home. In the enterprise
which
kept the home going he may have been little more than a passenger.
It
was the wife who carried the burdens.
It is easy
to understand that a hard pressed and worried wife would
become
exasperated. In September, 1960, a brother of the husband had a
fire
at his farm in Buckinghamshire and as a result the husband went
there
for a time in order to help. It was while he was there that
the wife wrote
to him and told him that she could not stand the
strain of his debts any
longer and she said: —" I told
him it grieved me to have to take this step,
" but if he did
not get work and clear himself of debt, after the end of the
"
year I should take the steps I have. I asked him to stay away and
get
" work because I could not stand the strain ". The
husband did not do as
she wished and towards the end of the year
he returned home. The wife's
first summons then followed. That was
in December, 1960. She alleged
wilful neglect by him to provide
reasonable maintenance. Cruelty was
not alleged. In her evidence
at the hearing on the 5th January, 1961, the
wife made no
complaint at all save in regard to money matters. There was
no
suggestion or hint at that time that her health was in any way
affected.
She said: " The only time I have any bother is over
finance ". She did
complain of the fact that although her
husband in the period after September,
1960, had worked as a farm
labourer (earning from £6 to £8 per week)
at his
brother's farm in Buckinghamshire he had not sent any money to her.
In his
evidence the husband said that the guest house was a joint
venture
and that he had kept the garden in order and had done
small outside
repairs and painting. He considered that the work he
had done had saved
much expenditure which otherwise would have
been incurred and that he
had improved the value of the property.
He further said that during the
previous four years he had applied
for jobs but had only succeeded in
obtaining casual employment for
very short periods. The magistrates told
the husband that he ought
to find work and that he ought to maintain his
wife and children
and that he had been guilty of wilful neglect to maintain
them.
Their order (requiring him to pay her £3 a week and £1
for each
of the two children) was made on the 5th January, 1961.
For some weeks
after that
date the husband was away at his sister's house and then he
did
obtain work. He became employed as a gardener-handyman at a wage
of
£8 15s. 0d. a week. He started to pay 15s. a week to his wife
and after-
wards, apart from one payment of £2, he paid her
£1 per week. He used
the balance partly to keep himself and
partly (to the extent, he said, of
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£4
per week) to pay off his previously incurred debts. In April, 1961,
the
wife consulted her doctor. In June, 1961, she ceased to
perform regular
household duties for him or to have any
association with him. In August,
1961, she took out a summons for
the variation of the January order. She
asked for the insertion of
a non-cohabitation clause on the ground that
her husband had
treated her with persistent cruelty. It seems remarkable
that she
should have complained of cruelty at that stage. In the
earlier
period she had her husband's presence and no money from
him: at this
period she was having nothing to do with him and he
was making a payment
(though a very small one) to her. It is true
that he was not fully complying
with the January order and was not
paying the stated amounts, but his
case was that because of his
financial position he could not do so and could
not pay more than
he was doing. In September, 1961, he took out a
cross-summons to
revoke the order of 5th January, 1961, on the ground
that his wife
was in desertion or alternatively on the ground that he was no
longer
guilty of wilful neglect to maintain for the reason that he was
not
(and never had been) in a position to pay the amount ordered.
The
husband in his evidence in October said that he had no reason
to think
that his wife was ill. He did not see the doctor come to
the house. His
wife had given him the impression that she did not
want him. It was
the view of the learned President that the object
of the wife in taking out
her summons in August, 1961, for
variation of the previous order was to
get her husband out of the
house. When the summons and cross-summons
came before the justices
in October, 1961, they inserted a non-cohabitation
clause. They
held that since 1957 he had persistently and wilfully refused
to
undertake paid employment, that worry over this and the debts
had
seriously affected the wife's health, that in September, 1960,
she had told
him that she could no longer stand the strain, that
he should have known
that his conduct was having a serious adverse
effect on her health and that
he must have known that a
continuance in his course of conduct would
have an injurious
effect on his wife's mental health. Though the order of
the
justices in October contains no express finding of cruelty it must,
I
think, be taken that their reason for acceding to the
application for a non-
cohabitation order was that they considered
that the complaint of persistent
cruelty made in August, 1961, was
made out. At the same time they decided
in favour of the husband
to the extent that they reduced the wife's main-
tenance from £3
a week to £1 a week and they deleted the requirement to
pay
£1 a week for each child, and furthermore they remitted the
arrears.
They,
therefore, impliedly held that the husband was paying as much as
in
all the circumstances he could pay. Previously they had told him
to
get work. Following upon that he had obtained work. He had made
such
payments as he could. At the earlier date there was no
allegation of cruelty.
There seems to have been even less
justification for it in August than there
was in January.
My Lords,
the husband may have been ineffectual in money matters and
he may
well be criticised and blamed for his failures in the period prior
to
January, 1961. He was then found guilty of wilful neglect to
provide
reasonable maintenance for his wife and his children.
Thereafter the events
were as I have indicated. Unless a finding
of wilful neglect to maintain
must in every case involve a finding
of cruelty (which I cannot accept) the
question that arises is, as
the learned President stated it, whether, "the
"
husband's conduct, however reprehensible, can properly be stigmatised
by
" the word 'cruelty' in its ordinary acceptation". I
do not think that
it can, and accordingly I would allow the
appeal.
Lord Hodson
MY LORDS,
The
question raised by this appeal is whether the Appellant,
George
Gollins, was rightly convicted of cruelty towards his wife,
Mabel Gollins. I
put the matter in this way although there is no
conviction recorded against
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him in the
somewhat strange manner in which this case has proceeded,
What has
happened is this. The wife, who had become dissatisfied wit
the
husband's failure to make any substantial contribution to the joint
home
which was successfully maintained by her efforts, sued the
husband for
wilful neglect to maintain her and her children,
making no allegation of
cruelty against him, and obtained an order
which he was unable to comply
with except to a very limited extent
The
parties were at this time living under the same roof and the
wife,
unwilling that this should continue, for the first time
raised against him a
charge of cruelty, upon which the justices
must have found the wife's
allegation proved, for they made a
separation order, thereby enabling the
wife to expel him from the
house which, while originally his, had been trans-
ferred to her
in circumstances which will appear.
There was
no material change in the situation from the time the first
order
was made on the 5th January, 1961, and the 5th October, 1961,
when
the separation order was made, the wife's complaint being, as
it always had
been, that she was not getting enough money and was
worried by her
husband's debts and the consequences of those
debts,- for she also had to
suffer the calls and demands of
creditors.
Indeed, it
appears that after the first order the husband paid more than
he
had previously been able to do because he was, during part of
the
time, in employment and able to keep himself, which the wife
was no
longer willing to do, make payments in reduction of his
debts and some
payment to his wife under the order.
On the
second hearing the wife, having obtained her objective,
namely.
separation, did not resist the husband's application to
vary the order which
was reduced from £3 a week to £1
a week and £1 a week for each child.
The husband satisfied
the justices that he was unable to pay the arrears,
which were
accordingly remitted.
Smarting
under the implied finding of cruelty, the husband appealed to
the
Divisional Court, which allowed the appeal upon the overriding
ground that
the Court did not consider that the husband's conduct,
however repre-
hensible, could properly be stigmatized by the word
" cruelty" in its
ordinary acceptation.
The wife
appealed to the Court of Appeal, and Willmer, L.J., with whom
Davies,
L.J., agreed in substance, held that there was abundant material
to
justify the finding of cruelty and that the Divisional Court were
therefore
in error in substituting a finding of their own. Harman,
L.J., in a dissenting
judgment expressly agreed with the
overriding ground of the Divisional
Court's decision to which I
have referred, concluding by saying: " Whatever
"
opprobrious names one may give to this husband, I do not think that
" ' cruel' is one of them ".
There is
no dispute as to the facts, and the only question for your
Lord-
ships' consideration is whether the Divisional Court was
right in reversing
the finding of cruelty implicit in the
justices' second order or whether the
Court of Appeal majority was
right in holding the Divisional Court to be
wrong in disturbing
the order of the justices.
Under the
Summary Jurisdiction Acts, 1895 and 1960, an appeal lies from
any
order made by a Court of Summary Jurisdiction under these Acts to
the
Probate, Divorce and Admiralty Division of the High Court, and
Rules
may from time to time be made regulating the practical
procedure in such
appeals. Rule 73 of the Matrimonial Causes Rules
provides for these
appeals to be made to the Divisional Court and
directs that the Court may
draw all inferences of fact which might
have been drawn in the Magistrates'
Court and
may give any judgment and make any order which ought to have
been
made. Ever since the passing of the first of these Acts in 1895
the
practice has been that the Divisional Court will not reverse
any finding of fact
by the Magistrates' Court unless it appears
that such finding is clearly wrong.
This practice is manifestly
sound, for decisions of justices are nearly akin
to decisions of
juries, and they do not and cannot be expected to give
elaborate
judgments shewing the process by which they have reached their
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decision
on fact. Moreover, in so far as these questions depend on
the
appreciation of the personalities involved it is well
recognized that any
appellate court will be reluctant to interfere
with decisions reached by those
who have not only heard the
evidence but had an opportunity of summing
up the characters of
the protagonists in the dispute.
The
justices are, however, in practice required to give reasons for
their
decision, and these appear to have been carefully drawn so
as to shew the
conclusion which they reached and the relevant
facts which led them to
convict the husband of cruelty. They are
as follows: —
" (1)
That at the time of the marriage the husband was heavily in
"
debt, unbeknown to the wife, and that throughout the marriage the
"
husband has not made any real or sustained effort to repair his
finan-
" cial situation ; but on the contrary has involved
his wife in his financial
" affairs to her detriment.
"(2)
That since 1957 the husband, in spite of his wife's pleas for
"
him to do so, has persistently and wilfully refused to undertake
paid
" employment, and that he has not made any real effort
to support his
" wife and children ;
" (3)
That the constant worry and anxiety over the husband's debts
"
and his wilful refusal to get work has seriously affected the
wife's
" health, and that she has good reasons to fear
permanent impairment
" of her health, which would affect her
capacity to keep herself and
" her two daughters ;
" (4)
That in September, 1960, the wife told the husband that she
"
could no longer stand the strain imposed by his behaviour;
" (5)
That apart from the complaint of the wife, the husband should
"
have known that his conduct was having a serious adverse effect on
"
his wife's health. We are satisfied that any reasonable man would
"
have appreciated this, and that the husband must have known that
"
a continuance in his course of conduct would have an injurious
"
effect on his wife's mental health ;
" (6)
We reject entirely the husband's contention that by looking
"
after the garden and poultry at Rivenhall he was making a
sufficient
" contribution towards maintaining his wife and
children, thus leaving
" him free to devote virtually his
whole time to developing his inven-
" tion. We consider that
a husband in his position in life should as a
" matter of
course cultivate the garden and do the heavier domestic
"
tasks, such as carrying coal, and that no husband in his position
is
" entitled to expect his wife to maintain him in return
for such normal
" duties. We also consider that on the facts
of this case it was the
" clear duty of the husband to obtain
work, to maintain himself, and
" to contribute to the support
of his wife and children, and that his
" failure to do so was
the direct cause of his wife's ill health."
I have
already stated that the facts are not in dispute, but it is
desirable
to refer to some of the evidence in order to shew what
the wife's case was.
She was married to the husband in 1946, she
being then 38 and he 43 years
of age. They had two daughters born
in 1947 and 1949. At the time of
the marriage they lived in a farm
belonging to the husband, and shortly
before the birth of their
elder daughter the husband tried to borrow money
from the wife to
pay for drainage and improvements. She then learned that
the farm
was heavily mortgaged, that he owed other debts and could not
support
a wife and child. The husband was never free from debt, although
the
wife lent him money to pay off pressing creditors, including £200
in
the year 1951 which has not been repaid.
In the
year 1957 the farm was sold and a further property, "
Rivenhall",
was bought in the name of the husband for £3,000
and subject to a mortgage
of £2,250. In 1960 the husband
transferred " Rivenhall" into the wife's
name and it so
remains, subject to the mortgage. The wife thereafter ran
the
house as a guest house for elderly people. This produced an income
15
for her of
£1,300 a year out of which she said she paid everything and
had
done so ever since they moved into the place.
The
husband looked after the garden and the poultry, but his main
interest
was inventing, in connection principally with
agricultural machinery, which
did not prove remunerative. The
wife's complaint was not that she'was
short of money but that her
husband, so far from providing anything to
keep down the mortgage
and provide for his family, involved her in his
debts so that she
was embarrassed by the demands of creditors and the
calls of
bailiffs which, no doubt, would come to the knowledge of the guests.
The wife
made no complaint at either hearing of any aggressive conduct
on
the part of the husband. She stated at the first hearing that the
only
time she had any bother with him was over finance and from
this statement
she never departed. At the second hearing she said:
" I do not claim that
" I am short of money. I have to
work to raise money to pay off the
" mortgage and keep
myself. One expects the husband to pay ".
The
husband was the one to complain of hostile conduct, saying that
he
thought the wife intended to make life unpleasant for him and
gave
examples of her conduct. One instance of her conduct emerges
from the
wife's own evidence, for she complained that the husband
was asserting his
authority towards his children and making
himself a nuisance. She admitted
that she took them out on one
occasion to stop him taking them to Nantwich.
Latterly she refused
to provide him with food and only cooked his meals
at weekends and
he did his own washing and ironing (apart from bed linen).
In this
unhappy state of affairs from April, 1961, the wife complained
of
headaches, agitation and unexplained fits of weeping,
sleeplessness and short
periods of amnesia. Her doctor formed the
impression that she was suffering
from a moderately severe anxiety
state precipitated by her financial and
marital difficulties. He
felt that if her domestic circumstances did not
improve her
psychological condition might well become worse in spite
of
treatment.
Although
the justices nowhere in their reasons use the word " cruelty
"
nor do they find that the complaint that the husband has
been guilty of
persistent cruelty was made out, yet they must have
formed the opinion
that cruelty was proved for otherwise it is not
to be supposed that they
would have made an order the effect of
which was to bar the husband
from his wife's society. Although the
statute does enable justices to pro-
nounce a separation even upon
the finding of wilful neglect to maintain,
it is not the practice
so to do for the reasons set out in the judgment of
the Court of
Appeal in Harriman v. Harriman [1909] P 123, see the
judgment
of Kennedy, L.J. at page 151:
" In
my judgment the history of this provision, the language of the
"
context, the very nature of the protection which the provision gives,
and
" the enactment in (a) that it shall have the
effect of a decree of judicial
" separation on the ground of
cruelty unite in shewing that the discretion
" given by
Parliament to the Court of summary jurisdiction as to the
"
framing of orders under ss. 4 and 5 is not rightly exercised, if
this
" non-cohabitation provision is inserted in the order
made for the wife's
" relief, except where the Court has been
satisfied by evidence, in the
" words of the Act of 1878,
'that the future safety of the wife is in
" ' peril'".
He goes on: "I do not mean, in saying this, that the
"
non-cohabitation provision ought to be inserted in the order only
"
where the wife has proved the convictions for assault or the
persistent
" cruelty expressly specified in s. 4 of the Act
of 1895. It is possible that
" a wilful neglect to maintain
may be proved to have been accompanied
" by occasional acts
of dangerous violence, and so justify the inclusion
" in the
order of the non-cohabitation provision. But I am clearly of
"
opinion that it is neither in accordance with the intention of the
"
Legislature, as appearing in this statute, nor in the interest of
the
" wife or of public morals, that the provision should be
included in an"
" order which is sought for and obtained
solely on the ground of the
" husband's desertion."
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True that
since these words were used Parliament has re-enacted the
Act of
1895 in substantially the same terms, but the practice laid down
in
Harriman's case has been consistently followed; cf. the
judgment of the
President in Jolliffe v. Jolliffe given
on the 16th January, 1963, after his
attention had been drawn to
the observations of two of the members of the
Court of Appeal on
this topic in the present case.
Your
Lordships are therefore, in my opinion, bound to deal with
this
appeal on the footing that the husband has been found guilty
of persistent
cruelty. This finding appears to me a finding which
is wholly wrong and
ought not to be allowed to stand.
I have
already indicated, I hope sufficiently, that findings of justices
in
matters of this kind ought not to be disturbed where there is
evidence to
support them, but I can find no trace of any conduct
alleged by the wife
against her husband which can be properly
called cruel. It is not, I think,
profitable to use other
adjectives by way of explanation, substitution or
definition. The
word " cruel " is enough, is readily understood
without
more and there is no need to speak of unreasonable,
reprehensible or inexcus-
able conduct,
True that
the Courts have taken a stand in that conduct which readily
merits
the adjective cruel is not to be the basis of relief unless injury
to
health or a reasonable apprehension of the same is established.
This was
established by Russell v. Russell [1897] AC 395, when by a majority your
Lordships' House decided that
the disgraceful conduct of Lady Russell to-
wards her husband,
while meriting the description cruel, did not measure
up to the
standard set by the Ecclesiastical Courts in that no physical
harm
was found to have been inflicted or was reasonably to be
apprehended.
Although
the members of your Lordships' House who decided that case
were
divided in their judgment, none doubted the validity of the opinion
of
Sir Wm. Scott in Evans v. Evans [1 Hag. Con. 35
at page 37) when he said—
" This however must be
understood, that it is the duty of Courts, and
" consequently
the inclination of Courts, to keep the rule extremely strict.
"
The causes must be grave and weighty, and such as shew an absolute
"
impossibility that the duties of the married life can be discharged.
In a
" state of personal danger no duties can be discharged ;
for the duty of
" self-preservation must take place before
the duties of marriage, which are
" secondary both in
commencement and in obligation; but what falls short
" of
this is with great caution to be admitted."
The
converse of the decision in Russell v. Russell, namely,
that once injury
to health could be attributed to matrimonial
discord then cruelty was proved,
has never, so far as I know, been
advanced in this country until this case.
Counsel for the wife was
at pains to emphasize that the catalogue of cruelty,
like the
catalogue of negligence, is never closed. This is true. He
relied
upon the observations of my noble and learned friend, Lord
Tucker, to that
effect in Jamieson v. Jamieson [1952]
A.C. 525 at page 550 in relation to
cases where no physical
violence is averred. In such cases, of which
Jamieson's case
was a not untypical example, the conduct averred in the
pleadings
which alone fell for consideration was not on the face of it
cruel,
but the case was sent for trial because of the averment of
deliberate inten-
tion and persistence in callous conduct by the
offending spouse although
aware of the effect on his wife's
health. But for the averment of intent
the judgment of the lower
House, holding that the pleaded case would not
sustain a charge of
cruelty, would have been upheld.
Where
physical violence or threats of violence are involved no
difficulty
arises and the Court does not stay to enquire with what
intent (in the absence
of insanity) acts are committed. By 1870 it
had been accepted that what
has been called moral force combined
with injury to health is sufficient
without any act of violence,
see the decision of Lord Penzance in Kelly v.
Kelly
[1870] L.R. 2 P. & D. 31 and 59, which has never been
disapproved.
It is in cases of this kind, where no violence or
threat of violence is involved,
that the question of intent
becomes important and is sometimes crucial,
as it was in
Jamieson's case. There is no indication that this husband
ever
had the smallest intention of doing any harm to anyone, least
of all his
17
wife. In
what way, then, was he cruel? Was it by omission, for cruelty
may
be manifested by omission as readily as by commission. To neglect
a
suffering spouse or one who has by misfortune fallen into danger
is cruel,
one would think, whether or not the other spouse has had
anything to do
with bringing about the suffering or the danger. To
speak of unwarrantable
indifference is only to illustrate that the
cruel man is merciless and the
question must always be, was the
conduct, be it positive or negative, cruel
according to the
meaning of that word as understood by ordinary people.
If it be
said that it is difficult to draw any line between what is or is
not
cruel I agree, but I see no reason for attempting to establish
boundaries on
one side of which cruelty lies, on the other of
which it does not. No one has
hitherto attempted so to do, and at
the end of it each person has to make up
his own mind after
considering each case as a whole, not by asking whether
conduct is
cruel and then asking whether it can in any way be justified.
!
respectfully adopt the language of my noble and learned friend,
Lord Reid,
in King v. King [1953] A.C. 124 at page
140 when he said, using words which
seem to me to have general
application—" The question whether the Respon-
"
dent treated the husband with cruelty is a single question only to
be
" answered after all the facts have been taken into
account".
In that
case your Lordships were invited to consider some recent cases
in
which the Courts had sought to give guidance in those cases where
cruelty
was alleged and the acts were not on the face of them
necessarily cruel
vis-à-vis the complaining spouse.
The first of these was Horton v. Horton
[1940] P.
187, a decision of Bucknill J. The learned judge said: " Mere
con-
" duct which causes injury to health is not enough. A
man takes the woman
" for his wife for better, for worse. If
he marries a wife whose character
" develops in such a way as
to make it impossible for him to live happily
" with her, I
do not think he establishes cruelty merely because he finds life
"
with her is impossible. He must prove that she has committed wilful
"
and unjustifiable acts inflicting pain and misery upon him and
causing him
" injury to health."
As Lord
Normand pointed out, this test may well have been adequate for
what
fell to be decided in Horton's case, but it is not an adequate test
in all
cases. It cannot be regarded as a test in cases which come
under the head
of " unwarrantable indifference ", for
example.
The same
comment seems to me to be appropriate in considering the case
of
Kaslefsky v. Kaslefsky [1951] P. 38. I agree with the
decision, but I find it
difficult to see how " the aiming
test " there put forward assists in the
conclusion, although
it is a valuable guide in many cases. The majority of
the Court
seems, however, to have taken the view that although cruelty was
not
proved yet the husband was justified in refusing to live with his
wife.
That, on the facts of the case (which was quite different
from the Russell
case), I also find difficult to
understand. The judgment of Denning L.J.,
who was the third member
of the court, has, as I have indicated, been a very
useful guide
in considering many borderline cases, repeating as he
did
observations of his own in an earlier case of Westall v.
Westall, 65 T.L.R.
" Aiming" is an aspect of
intention. Moreover, I note that your
Lordships had the
opportunity of considering Kaslefsky's case not only in
King's
case but also in Jamiesons' case. I do not see how
differences of
judicial opinion are to be avoided in this area.
King's case is an illustration.
Your Lordships were divided
three to two in favour of the finding of no
cruelty, the Court of
Appeal was of the same opinion, being divided two to
one, and the
learned and experienced trial judge was of the opposite opinion.
I have
formed myself a clear opinion that in this case the conduct of
the
husband cannot justly be called cruel, and I have looked in
vain to see what
he did or left undone which qualifies him to be
convicted of cruelty to his
wife. The case against him was simple
enough. It was that to all intents
and purposes he was a man who
did not provide for his wife's maintenance
and further got into
debt and allowed his wife to suffer with him the incon-
veniences
which followed. It was said, but this was not proved, that he put
her
name on a document relating to a debt of his in circumstances
amounting
to forgery, but I find no positive act proved against
him. Willmer L.J., was
of opinion that this failure to provide was
enough, but this ignores the
18
realities
of the situation. The husband was not a man of means and the
wife
relatively speaking was a woman of means. She never attempted to
make
a case of physical suffering brought about by any failure to
provide
the necessaries of life. For a man to fail to support his
wife is no doubt
a matter which can be dealt with by appropriate
proceedings, though I have
not myself previously heard of a case
where an impecunious husband was
sued by a pecunious wife. In any
event, in my opinion no cruelty was
involved, and I would allow
the appeal.
Lord Pearce
my
lords,
In all
matrimonial disputes, whether in the Magistrates' Courts or in
the
Divorce Court, the word "cruelty" has the same
connotations. It has a
long history behind it. In 1857 by the
Divorce and Matrimonial Causes Act
the Divorce Court took over the
jurisdiction of the Ecclesiastical Courts with
the added statutory
power to grant decrees of dissolution of marriage. By
section 22
it was bound in all suits other than those for dissolution to act
and
give relief " on principles and rules which in the
opinion of the said Court
" shall be as nearly as may be
conformable to the principles and rules
" on which the
Ecclesiastical Courts have heretofore . . . given relief "
(see
now Judicature Consolidation Act, 1925, sections 32 and 103).
The former
relief by decree a mensa et thoro, of which
cruelty had been a ground, became
relief by a decree for judicial
separation (section 7). And a decree for
judicial separation might
be obtained either by the husband or the wife
" on the ground
of adultery or cruelty or desertion without cause for two
"
years and upwards " (section 16). The Matrimonial Causes Act,
1937, first
empowered the Court to grant a decree of dissolution
on the ground that the
Respondent " has since the celebration
of the marriage treated the petitioner
" with cruelty ".
From the
days of Lord Stowell down to the present it has been acknow-
ledged
that to support a finding of cruelty the matter must be grave
and
weighty. And in Russell v. Russell [1897] AC 395,
this House finally settled
that conduct must, in order to
constitute cruelty in the legal acceptance of
the term, be such as
to cause danger to life, limb, or health, bodily or
mental, or to
give rise to a reasonable apprehension of such danger. (See
Lord
Merriman in Jamieson v. Jamieson [1952] A.C. 525
at page 544.)
Thus there
have long been two safeguards against any extension of relief
to
cases founded on mere trivialities and incompatibility.
The
earlier cases of cruelty dealt in the main with acts of physical
violence,
and were little concerned with motives or intentions. In
Dysart v. Dysart
in 1844 (1 Rob. Ecc. 106) Dr. Lushington
said: " It is for me to consider the
" conduct itself
and its probable consequences; the motives and causes
"
cannot hold the hand of the Court unless the wife be to blame, which
is a
" wholly different consideration ". But it appears
clearly from the cases
that the Court's objective consideration
took account of the particular
individuals concerned and the
particular circumstances of each case.
In Kelly
v. Kelly [1879] L.R. 2 P. & D. 59, which Lord Merriman
described
as " the leading case in England on the subject of
cruelty without physical
" violence " (in Jamieson v.
Jamieson [1952] A.C. 525 at page 540), the Court
considered
a course of tyrannous conduct intended to dominate the wife
and
bend her to the husband's will. The full Court there found
cruelty
proved and Lord Penzance expressly stated (at page 72)
that the husband
" says that he does not desire to injure
her, and it has never been asserted that
" he does".
In various
cases thereafter it was shown that intention to injure or to be
cruel
was not a necessary ingredient of cruelty. The words of Shearman, J.
19
in Hodden
v. Hodden (" The Times " 5th December, 1919)
express the matter
succinctly: " I do not question ... that
he had no intention of being cruel...
" but ... his
intentional acts amounted to cruelty." The same line of
thought
was followed by the Court of Appeal in the case of Squire v.
Squire
[1949] P. 51 (approved by Lord Merriman in Jamieson
v. Jamieson (supra)
at page 541). Tucker, L.J. there
said: (p. 56): "It is to be observed that in
" the
well-known and much-quoted case of Russell v. Russell ([1897] AC 395)
" it is nowhere suggested that motive is a
necessary element in cruelty ".
In
Jamieson v. Jamieson (at p. 535) Lord Normand, having
quoted the
Lord President's observation in the Court below, that
in cases of mental
cruelty " the guilty spouse must either
intend to hurt the victim or at least
" be unwarrantably
indifferent as to the consequences to the victim",
continued:
" I do not propose to go into that because I wish to avoid the
"
discussion of hypothetical cases and because I am of opinion that
actual
" intention to hurt may have in a doubtful case a
decisive importance, and
" that such an intention has been
averred here. Actual intention to hurt is
" a circumstance of
peculiar importance because conduct which is intended
" to
hurt strikes with a sharper edge than conduct which is the
consequence
" of mere obtuseness or indifference." Those
words are inconsistent with the
view that intention was an
essential element. So, too, Lord Merriman's
opinion. He quoted
with approval (at p. 540) the words of Lord Penzance in
Kelly
v. Kelly set out above, and those of Shearman, J. in
Hodden v. Hodden
(supra). My noble and learned
friend, Lord Reid, said (at p. 549). " I do
" not doubt
that there are many cases where cruelty can be established with-
"
out it being necessary to be satisfied by evidence that the defender
had
" such an intention, but I do not intend to decide
anything about such
" cases." Lord Tucker said (at p.
550): " Every such act must be judged in
" relation to
its attendant circumstances, and the physical or mental con-
"
dition or susceptibilities of the innocent spouse, the intention of
the offend-
" ing spouse and the offender's knowledge of the
actual or probable effect
" of his conduct on the other's
health . . . are all matters which may be
" decisive in
determining on which side of the line a particular act or course
"
of conduct lies."
Thus in
all the opinions there appears the view that intention, though
it
may be a deciding factor in some doubtful cases, is not essential to
cruelty.
There is
nothing in King v. King [1953) A.C. 124 which is inconsistent
with
that view. My noble and learned friend, Lord Reid, there
said: " It has
" long been recognised that a malevolent
intention while not essential to
" cruelty is a most
important element where it exists." The case concerned a
nagging
wife whose husband's conduct was thought by three of their
Lord-
ships to have given the wife sufficient provocation and
excuse for her be-
haviour. Two of their Lordships thought
otherwise. Thus it was a border-
line case which turned on the
extent to which the husband's conduct provided
an excuse to the
wife in the particular facts of the case. It would be wrong
to
read words intended to refer to the particular problem before the
House
as intended to be of universal application, particularly
when the authors of
them disclaimed such an intention. My noble
and learned friend, Lord Reid,
(who was one of the majority)
having described the case as " a narrow and
" difficult
case ", said: " I do not intend to try to define cruelty. I
doubt
" whether any definition would apply equally well to
cases where there
" has been physical violence and to cases
of nagging or to cases where there
" has been a deliberate
intention to hurt and to cases where temperament and
"
unfortunate circumstances have caused much of the trouble. But in
cases
" like the present, the wife's conduct must at least be
inexcusable after
" taking everything into consideration."
Lord
Normand said (at p. 129): " I have no doubt that the test
whether
" the conduct was wilful and unjustifiable . . . was
an adequate test for what
" remained to be decided in
Horton's case. What is open to question is
"
whether it can be taken to be an adequate test in all cases of
cruelty
" by nagging accusations. I think it is not always
an adequate test, and that
" Bucknill, J. did not put it
forward as a universal and exhaustive test in
20
"
this type of case ... If the trial judge in the exercise of his
discretion
" comes to the conclusion that the conduct of the
respondent is, notwith-
" standing the provocation received
or the difficulties and stresses endured,
" really an
inexcusable offence against the other spouse, his judgment should
"
be respected as conclusive." In the present case no question of
provocation
or of bad behaviour by the Petitioner arises.
Those
words were not, I think, intended to limit, so far as cases of
nagging
and accusations and the like are concerned, the generality
of any rule that
intention is not an essential element in cruelty.
An act may be found
inexcusable although the actor had no harmful
intention.
It has
always been clear that an intention to hurt invests any act or
conduct
with a greater significance. This axiom is, however,
merely a piece of jury
wisdom which a sensible tribunal bears in
mind when performing its task
of assessing whether a particular
act or course of conduct was cruel. It is
wrong to exalt it into a
criterion of legal principle which will decide in all
cases where
there is no physical violence whether conduct can be cruel.
It was
natural that with the increasing incidence of cases where no
physical
violence was involved the question of intention should
take on an added
importance. For whereas a blow speaks for itself,
insults, humiliations,
meanesses, impositions, deprivations, and
the like may need the interpreta-
tion of underlying intention for
an assessment of their fullest significance.
And that
interpretation may in some cases turn the scale.
The
introduction of divorce on the ground of cruelty by the 1937
Act
appears to have given rise to fears that divorce might be
granted for mere
trivialities or incompatibility in spite of the
existing safeguards of gravity
and injury to health. Instead of
following the simple and direct approach
of Dr. Lushington
(supra), namely, considering " the conduct itself and
its
" probable consequences ", the Court has in some
cases pursued a devious
and confusing course. In Kaslefsky v.
Kaslefsky [1961] P. 38 it was laid down
by the Court of
Appeal that conduct to be cruel must be aimed at the victim.
Thus
an element of intention was made a necessary ingredient in cruelty.
The germ
of the doctrine that conduct is not cruel unless it is aimed at
the
other party may, I think, be found in Horton v. Horton
[1940] P. 187.
There Bucknill, J. in granting a decree on the
ground of cruelty, distinguished
between conduct which was caused
merely by " the development and mani-
" festation of the
wife's character acting so to speak in its own sphere ",
and
" wilful and unjustifiable conduct to him which was an intrusion
upon
" and did violence to his own mode of living." The
former was in his
judgment not cruelty but the latter was.
Later in
Westall v. Westall (65 T.L.R. 337) Denning, L.J. said
obiter that
" intention is an element in this sense,
that there must be conduct which is,
" in some way, aimed by
one person at the other ". Kaslefsky's case adopted
that
dictum, and laid down that to secure a divorce on the ground of
cruelty
there must be shown on the part of the respondent conduct
which is
" aimed at", that is to say, actions or words
actually or physically directed
at, the petitioner or done with
intention to injure him or to inflict misery
on him.
The
decision on the facts was not of importance. The cumulative effect
of
the wife's acts appears from the report to have been somewhere on
the
border line of cruelty, but the evidence of injury to health
was unsatisfactory.
Without hearing the evidence it would be
difficult to say whether a decree
should or should not be granted.
But the general approach laid down
has been treated as binding and
has therefore affected later decisions. So
far as it laid down
that unjustifiable conduct to the children could not be
cruelty
unless it was done for the purpose of wounding the other spouse,
its
effect has been satisfactorily mitigated by the Court of
Appeal in Wright v.
Wright [1960] P. 85, and in other
respects the reasoning in Waters v. Waters
[1956] P.
344 has avoided some of the difficulties caused by it.
In
Kaslefsky's case the Court apparently considered that the use
of the
word " treated " with cruelty in the 1937 Act had
imparted a slightly different
approach to cruelty (Bucknill, L.J.
at 45). This, as it seems to me, is
21
erroneous,
since I regard the phrase "treated with cruelty" as being
no
more than a convenient description of a situation where there
has been cruel
treatment of which the respondent was the author.
In an article on this
subject by the Editor of the " Law
Quarterly ", 79 L.Q.R. 104, there is the
apt observation: "If
instead of using the word 'cruelty' Parliament had
" seen fit
to use the word ' stupidity ', which in fact is one of the major
causes
" of divorces, must it be said that the words ' treats
his wife with stupidity'
" mean either that the man is stupid
or that he intends his act to be
" stupid."
I have
sympathy with the Court's desire in Kaslefsky's case to supply
some
mesh that would separate the grain from the chaff: but the
introduction of
the necessity for a petitioner to prove that
conduct was aimed at him or her
has created confusion and
difficulty.
Can the
words " aimed at" include acts done without intention but
with
knowledge (and also perhaps some regret) that they will
strike the other?
Can it include acts done with an unreasonable
lack of appreciation of the
fact that they will strike the other?
Can it include acts done with callous
indifference as to whether
the acts strike the other or not? In my view
the test is not a
happy one from a practical point of view and it can only
be made
to work if it is patched by presumptions.
On such a
doctrine the Court is at once faced with the difficulty that
much
cruelty is purely selfish and is not aimed at the victim nor
prompted by any
intention or desire to injure. Not infrequently
acts which any reasonable
person would regard as cruel acts, or
which any reasonable person would
have known to be hurtful and to
be injuring the health of the victim, are
done by a respondent who
is so bigoted, or obtuse, or insensitive, or self-
centred that he
or she did not in fact realise that these acts were cruel
or
injurious or intend that they should be. If the Court insists
on proof of
intention it must then either allow to the bigot, the
obtuse, the insensitive,
the self-centred a free hand to be as
cruel as seems reasonable to their
bigotry, stupidity,
insensitiveness, or selfishness, or else it must make
disingenuous
presumptions in order to pay lip service to its insistence
on
intention.
A Court
may, as a piece of prima facie reasoning, presume that a
person
intends the probable consequences of his acts. But if that
presumption is
rebuttable and the Court insists on proof of
intention, then in many cases
of cruelty it cannot honestly give
relief against the bigot, the obtuse, the
insensitive, the
self-centred. To avoid absurdity it may say—" I think
"
he must have realised and must have intended to
hurt",—well knowing
that in truth this particular man
did not.
My noble
and learned friend, Lord Reid, in Jamieson v. Jamieson
[1952]
A.C. at page 549 reserved his opinion " whether,
or to what extent, it is neces-
" sary or proper to impute an
intention which did not exist by invoking a legal
"
presumption that everyone must be supposed to intend or foresee the
natural
" and probable consequences of his acts ".
Lord
Merriman, P. always made clear that such a presumption is
re-
buttable (for example, Simpson v. Simpson [1951]
P. 320 at page 333 ; Waters
v. Waters [1956] P. 344,
and Jamieson v. Jamieson (supra) at page 541.) See
also
Lang v. Lang [1955] AC 402 at page 428. But some of the
expressions
in other cases have seemed to treat the presumption as
irrebuttable, which is
tantamount to saying that whatever the true
intentions of the actor he must be
taken to intend the probable
consequence of his act. If an irrebuttable pre-
sumption is
allowed (and I see no justification for it save only as an escape
of
last resort from the absurdities into which insistence on proof
of intention can
lead) one reaches by a devious route the same
objective test which Dr.
Lushington applied when he considered "
the conduct itself and its probable
" consequences ".
One may
take, for example, the case of a husband whose wife has
become
seriously ill abroad and who leaves her timorous, unable to
speak the
language, without adequate nursing arrangements or
currency, simply because
he must return to watch a football match
which he feels that he cannot
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miss. In
such a case he would probably express and feel some regret at
her
plight and feel sorry that he cannot spare her any money from his
own
comforts and cannot make better arrangements, but he hopes
optimistically
that it will all work out somehow. I doubt if any
Court would say that
was not cruelty; and yet, in order so to
hold, it would, if intention or
aiming be a necessary ingredient,
have to deem an intention or aim which
it knows to be untrue. To
say that unwarrantable indifference will suffice
as intention or
aim is no satisfactory answer to the problem, since in-
difference
is the antithesis of intention or aim. In such a case the test of
"
aiming at" is clearly inappropriate. If one endows the wife in
the case
I have envisaged with a robust and independent nature, a
knowledge of the
language, a less severe illness, a larger supply
of currency and more adequate
nursing arrangements and gives to
the husband a more cogent reason for
returning to England, the
element of cruelty departs: yet it may return if
he acted with the
deliberate intention of hurting her.
If the
husband was too obtuse to realise how unkindly he was acting,
that
may be some excuse, but not (in those circumstances) any
adequate excuse
such as would prevent the conduct being cruel. If
he appreciated but was
indifferent to her suffering, the cruelty
was worse. If he intended to hurt
it was worst of all. The
question whether he aimed it at her is decisive
only of those acts
of which one can predicate that they are cruel when
intentional
but not cruel when unintentional and it is not possible to
form
categories of acts which come exactly within that dubious
class. For so
often, as in the case envisaged, cruelty is a
question of degree.
In my
opinion, therefore, the Court in Kaslefsky's case erred in
saying that
" aiming at" the petitioner was an essential
ingredient in cases of cruelty.
So, too, in Eastland v.
Eastland [1954] P. 403, which followed and applied the
reasoning
in Kaslefsky's case.
I do not
find the test of the behaviour which the spouse " bargains to
"
endure for better, for worse " (see Buchler v. Buchler
[1947] P. 25 at page 46
and Horton v. Horton [1940]
P. 187 at page 193) helpful since it confuses
rather than
clarifies. Much of the felicitous and often quoted language
of
Asquith, L.J. in Buchler v. Buchler has value and in
particular his notion of
the " reasonable wear and tear of
married life ", which is a useful reminder of
the fact that
in many marriages there are many complaints that could be put
forward
by either party, but that only grave and weighty matters
causing
injury or apprehended injury to health will suffice to
support a charge of
cruelty or constructive desertion. The words "
for better, for worse ", how-
ever, carry religious
associations knit up with the indissolubility of marriage
and are
of little help in estimating whether a spouse is legally entitled
to
the relief provided by Parliament. See the observations of
Danckwerts, L.J.
in Hall v. Hall [1962] 3 All E.R.
518 at page 524. It may be that those words
influenced the actual
decision since, like Danckwerts, L.J. (at page 525), I find
it
hard to understand how the Court on the reported facts came to
overrule
the decision of the Judge of first instance.
Nor do I
think that the attempt in Horton's case to exclude from
cruelty
acts caused merely by the natural development of a
spouse's character
within its own sphere is helpful. Allowances
must always be made for
temperament, and mere temperamental
disharmony simpliciter is not cruelty.
But if a temperament
which naturally tends to unkindness or selfishness or
callousness
develops to a point at which its acts are cruel, whether
inten-
tionally or not, it cannot be right to say that the other
spouse must endure
it without relief. Nor can one helpfully say
that development of character
is within its own sphere if its
emanations affect and cause injury to the
other spouse. Marriage
by its nature causes one party to be affected by
most of the
reprehensible conduct on the part of the other, and usually it
is
obvious that it will be so.
When the
two parties and the evidence are before the Court it is easier
to
form a view than to pronounce in the abstract. That view, though
it
makes allowance for the subjective emotions, temperaments, and
excuses
of the individuals, judges the conduct by its probable
consequences, and
thus decides the question of fact and degree
whether this conduct between
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these
spouses was cruel. It is impossible to give a comprehensive
definition
of cruelty, but when reprehensible conduct or departure
from the normal
standards of conjugal kindness causes injury to
health or an apprehension
of it, it is, I think, cruelty if a
reasonable person, after taking due account
of the temperament and
all the other particular circumstances, would con-
sider that the
conduct complained of is such that this spouse should not be
called
on to endure it The judgments of the Court of Appeal in Hall v.
Hall
[1962] All E.R. 518 propounded a similar test in a case
of constructive
desertion, save that in such a case there need be
no injury to health. A
relevant question is whether the conduct is
excusable (per Lord Reid in
King v. King [1953] A.C.
at page 145 and Willmer, L.J. in Usmar v. Usmar
[1949] P. 1
at page 9, " forgivable in the circumstances "). For there
are two
sides to be considered in a case of cruelty—from the
Petitioner's side ought
this Petitioner to be called on to endure
the conduct, from the Respondent's
side was this conduct
excusable?
I agree
with Lord Merriman, whose practice in cases of mental cruelty
was
always to make up his mind first whether there was injury or
appre-
hended injury to health. In the light of that vital fact
the Court has then
to decide whether the sum total of the
reprehensible conduct was cruel.
That depends on whether the
cumulative conduct was sufficiently weighty to
say that from a
reasonable person's point of view after a consideration of
any
excuse which this Respondent might have in the circumstances,
the
conduct is such that this Petitioner ought not to be called on
to endure it.
"
What on paper may seem little more than a series of pinpricks ",
said Lord
Normand in Jamieson v. Jamieson [1952]
A.C. at page 536, " may present a
" very different
aspect when it has been developed in evidence." The
quality
of every piece of conduct is affected by its context and by
that
which precedes and follows it. And it is to be remembered
that, as my
noble and learned friend, Lord Reid, pointed out in
King v. King [1953] A.C.
124 at page 140, "It
is not right first to ask whether the respondent's
" conduct
was cruel in fact and then to ask whether it can in any way be
"
justified. The question whether the respondent treated her husband
with
" cruelty is a single question only to be answered after
all the facts have
" been taken into account." And (at
page 138). " In a case of this character
" the wife's
conduct must be judged in the light of the whole history of the
"
marriage ".
It was
suggested by Mr. Latey that we should evolve a formula which
would
exclude such conduct as that of the Appellant from cruelty
unless
there was an intention to hurt, and that then having found
no such intention
we should acquit him of cruelty. But cruelty is
a question of fact and
degree, and no legal formula can resolve
its peculiar problems. It would no
doubt simplify decisions in
accident cases if the law evolved a legal principle
that all
driving over 40 miles per hour is negligent and that no driving
under
that speed could be negligence; but such a principle would
be an evasion of
the Court's duty to decide the question of fact.
So, too, with cruelty cases
which depend on an even wider variety
of matters than negligence cases.
The particular circumstances of
the home, the temperaments and emotions
of both the parties and
their status and their way of life, their past relation-
ship and
almost every circumstance that attends the act or conduct
complained
of may all be relevant. I agree with the words of Lord
Tucker when he
said in Jamieson v. Jamieson [1952]
A.C. at 550: " It is in my view equally
" undesirable—if
not impossible—by judicial pronouncement to create
"
certain categories of acts or conduct as having or lacking the nature
or
" quality which render them capable ... of amounting to
cruelty in cases where
" no physical violence is averred."
Since the
personalities of the parties are an important element in a
decision
whether conduct between those two persons has been cruel,
it follows that
a Court which relies on notes and has not seen the
witnesses must use great
caution. There are, of course, cases
where it can say that whatever the
personalities of the parties or
the manner of giving their evidence, it can
be asserted that the
conduct was or was not cruel. But often that which
the justices
saw and heard may properly have turned the scale. In such
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a case
reversal of their decision is to create, not remedy, injustice. Was
there
material here on which the justices, with the advantage of
hearing and
seeing the witnesses, could properly reach their
conclusion?
Mr. Latey
seeks to put before us the image of a man who was a good
husband
in all save his incapacity to work or to provide money for the
home.
It is more probable that the justices formed the view that he
was
not merely lazy but callous and selfish. Early in the marriage
he
borrowed her savings and he " involved her in his
financial affairs to her
" detriment". She was a
competent, stable person and she managed by
hard work in the guest
house to keep the family from want. " Since 1957 the
"
husband, in spite of his wife's pleas for him to do so, has
persistently
" and wilfully refused to undertake paid
employment." He has subjected
her to constant worry and
anxiety over his debts. Creditors and bailiffs
have come to her
guest house and embarrassed her courageous efforts to
make a
living for the family. He has insisted on remaining on the
premises,
when under the circumstances the wife naturally wanted
him to depart.
'Under the pressure of such a situation the wife
has paid sums to his creditors.
Apparently he has actually gone to
the length of signing her name to a
promissory note in order to
obtain money for his own purposes—a course
which was
obviously likely to cause her great anxiety. In September, I960,
he
was warned that his wife could no longer stand the strain imposed
by
his behaviour. Moreover, any reasonable man, as the Justices
found, would
have appreciated that his conduct was having a
serious adverse effect on
his wife's health.
In the
result a capable, well-balanced woman who has endured much stress
for
several years has been reduced to " headaches, agitation and
unexplained
" fits of weeping, sleeplessness and short
episodes of amnesia ". The doctor
describes her condition as
" a moderately severe anxiety state precipitated
" by
her financial and marital difficulties ... If her domestic
circumstances
" do not improve her psychological condition
may well become worse in
" spite of treatment ".
The
husband is, according to the wife, arrogant and bigoted. Whether
that
description is justified we do not know, but the justices had an
oppor-
tunity of getting some impression of his personality. There
is created by the
evidence and the reasons the picture of a man
who has been, over the years,
parasitical, selfish and callous to
the physical undoing of a healthy woman
working hard to support
herself and her children.
I agree
with Willmer and Davies, L.JJ. that the conclusion of the
justices
was a conclusion which they could properly reach on the
evidence and
on the reasons given. I also agree with the reasoning
of the majority in
the Court of Appeal save in so far as it was
necessarily affected by Kaslefsky's
case.
I would therefore dismiss the appeal.
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