FAMILY DIVISION
Strand, London, WC2A 2LL |
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Respondent |
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Ms Poonam Bhari (instructed by Veale Wasbrough Vizards LLP) for the Respondent Father
Hearing dates: 2nd - 4th July 2018
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The Application and Issues for Determination
i) Should it be a precondition of the move that it could not take place until a mirror order was in place in the courts of Uganda?
ii) Should the father's obligation to meet the costs of travel for contact with him be limited to the children's air fares alone or should it also cover ancillary costs such as travel to the airport by taxi?
iii) Should the father have permission to take the children to Eritrea for one week during his time with the children?
iv) Should the children's passports be provided to the father when he spent time with the children.?
Procedural history
This Hearing
The Legal Framework.
"the overriding consideration for the court in deciding whether to allow a parent to take a child to a non-Hague Convention country is whether the making of that order would be in the best interests of the child. Where (as in most cases) there is some risk of abduction and an obvious detriment to the child if that risk were to materialise the court has to be positively satisfied that the advantages to the child of her visiting that country outweigh the risks to her welfare which the visit will entail. This will therefore routinely involved the court in investigating what safeguards can be put in place to minimise the risk of retention and to secure the child's return if that transpires. Those safeguards should be capable of having a real and tangible effect in the jurisdiction in which they are to operate and be capable of being easily accessed by the UK-based parent".
i) the magnitude of the risk of breach of the order if permission is given;
ii) the magnitude of the consequences of breach if it occurs; and
iii) the level of security that may be achieved by building into the arrangements all of the available safeguards.
The Parties Positions
i) should it be a precondition of the move that it could not take place until a mirror order was in place in the courts of Uganda.
a) The mother says she should be allowed to relocate to enable the children to commence the new school term in Uganda towards the end of August. If a mirror order can be put in place by then all well and good but if it cannot be then the mother says that the priority must be to make the move and to allow the children to start the new school year in their new school. That will best promote their welfare.
b) Ms Mills says that the mother can be trusted to abide by the terms of the order which will require the children to spend time with their father at Christmas by which time the order probably will have been registered but in any event the mother can be trusted to ensure the contact takes place. Ms Mills places particular reliance on the mother's historic attitude to contact in particular the fact that she returned from Ethiopia on three occasions to enable the father to spend time with the children in England and Holland in 2013/14. She says she is proactive in booking flights and indeed even in the face of this contested litigation has booked and paid for the flights for the father's summer holiday contact which commences this Saturday.
c) She says the father's complaints about the mother are simply not justified. She says that the emails complaining about missed telephone calls in the course of 2016 hardly demonstrates a poor track record on the mother's part in ensuring the girls are available to have contact. She also says that the father's complaints that the mother did not allow contact in 2013 are not made out on the evidence. Rather she says it is clear that the mother did offer contact but the father, in a huff, had taken himself off to Holland and Eritrea and was declining to see both the mother and the children.
ii) Should the father's obligation to meet the costs of travel for contact with him be limited to the children's air fares alone or should it also cover ancillary costs such as travel to the airport by taxi.
a) The mother says that the father's financial position is opaque. She says she has to pay for getting to and from the airport, that she uses a taxi in the early hours of the morning or the late hours of the night because that is the most beneficial way of getting to and from the airport for the girls to enable them to spend a full day with the father at the beginning and conclusion of their holiday.
b) She says that it is only right that the father should bear the costs of these arrangements as he is the beneficiary.
c) In any event given that the father contributes nothing to the children's living costs, paying no maintenance whatsoever, she says that it is only fair that he should bear the costs of the time he spends with children.
iii) Should the father have permission to take the children to Eritrea for one week during his time with the children.
iv) Should the children's passports be provided to the father when he spent time with the children.
a) Ms Mills invites me to consider these issues together. She submits that the father should not be permitted to take the children to Eritrea and should not be provided with the passports.
b) The mother says that the risks of the father not returning the children from Eritrea, or if in possession of the children's passports in Europe of taking the children to Eritrea cannot be dismissed. In particular the mother says that the father's behaviour in January 2015 show him using the children as leverage to extract from the mother a favourable deal in respect of the ending of their marriage and the arrangements for the children. She says he is more interested in his rights than in the welfare of the children at times and that there is a not to be ignored possibility that he might retain the children in Eritrea if he felt that his rights were in issue. The mother also relies on the issue raised by Dr Campbell, namely the possibility that the state itself might step in to prevent the children leaving, they being entitled to Eritrean citizenship and being susceptible to compulsory conscription.
c) The mother says that the consequences of the children being retained in Eritrea would be huge. She recognises that her own loss of A contributes to her fear of being separated from the girls but that it has to be recognised that she has been the girls lifelong primary carer and that separation from her in Eritrea would be hugely harmful to the children. It is a country with which they are not familiar, their familiarity with language is limited, they have very few family members on either the paternal or maternal side there and it is a country which is not a modern democratic state but rather a one-party dictatorship with all the problems and risks that entails. The mother recognises that there are some benefits to the children in visiting Eritrea; being able to see their father's home and the factory and businesses he runs, seeing their paternal grandfather and step-grandmother in their home and getting exposure both to Asmara as a city and the language and culture would all be benefits. However the mother says that they are limited given the absence from that country of all of the extended family and the ability of the children to imbibe cultural and linguistic aspects of Eritrean life from their extended family in other countries.
d) Ms Mills in particular emphasises that there really is no security at all either in place or available in Eritrea. The father has offered no financial security. He has not offered to get an order registered in the Eritrea courts. Ms Mills says that the explanation on Eritrean laws gives rise to substantial doubt as to whether the system allows for the equivalent of a mirror order or advance registration. She emphasises that the explanation addresses the question of execution of judgments which suggests a process which would take place after the event of an abduction. In that case Ms Mills relies on the uncertainty in Mr Gebru's report as to whether in fact an English order could be executed given the uncertainty over whether an Eritrean judgment could be executed in the UK. Ms Mills says there is a complete absence of security.
i) Should it be a precondition of the move that it could not take place until a mirror order was in place in the courts of Uganda?
a) There is a complete lack of trust between the father and mother arising from the mother taking the children to Ethiopia without the father's consent in 2013. The father says that this was an abduction and that the mother cannot be trusted to adhere to the terms of any order I make and thus prior to the move taking place this order must be registered or mirrored in Uganda.
b) The father says the mother has not been reliable in relation to contact historically. He says that she prevented any contact during 2012 despite him asking for it and that she has been unreliable in relation to telephone contact not ensuring that the girls are available when they are supposed to be and not communicating in advance to notify him of their lack of availability.
c) The father says there are no welfare disadvantages in deferring the move until it is registered. He says that the mother has made arrangements to ensure the children are back in English schools if the move does not take place prior to September and that their places in the Ugandan school remain available.
ii) Should the father's obligation to meet the costs of travel for contact with him be limited to the children's air fares alone or should it also cover ancillary costs such as travel to the airport by taxi.
a) The father says that he was essentially wiped out financially after 2011. He says he spent his redundancy on subsidising the mother whilst she was on maternity leave. He says that his 70% pay was also expended in meeting debts and that he lost his house in Switzerland. Hhe says that he is earning modest sums within his father's business and that it is not reasonable for the mother to take taxis and expect him to pay for them.
b) He says he should have a say in the time of travel and on the flights to ensure that the best value deals are obtained and that his costs are kept to a minimum. He would like the arrangements to be made three months in advance.
iii) Should the father have permission to take the children to Eritrea for one week during his time with the children.
iv) Should the children's passports be provided to the father when he spends time with the children.
a) The father says that the expert evidence in relation to the risks of travel to and from Eritrea does not substantiate a real risk of the children being detained in Eritrea if they travel there. He points out that Dr Campbell accepted that his own student who is of conscription age had been able to travel in and out of Eritrea frequently without being detained. The father also prays in aid the fact that both he and the mother and Naomi and other family members and children have been able to travel in and out of Eritrea without difficulty. Thus Ms Bhari says that Dr Campbell's academic experience does not match the real world and that I should not place any real reliance on his assessment of the risks to the children of the state intervening, refusing an exit visa or requiring that the children undertake conscription.
b) The father says he has never sought to remove the children from the mother's care, rather he trusts her with almost the entirety of their care and that therefore there is no risk of him seeking to take on their care himself.
c) He says that were he to retain the children in Eritrea the consequences for him would be appalling; he might become a fugitive, he would be unable to travel in Europe and might be shunned by his family. He would therefore not place himself in such a position.
d) The father particularly emphasises the benefits to the children and their exposure to Eritrean life and culture. They would visit his house, see his father, see their step-grandmother and be able to see their maternal great-grandmother who lives nearby.
e) Ms Bhari notes that Ms Brown the Cafcass officer noted there are 'no safeguarding concerns about his care of N and L to suggest that he would make any decisions that may place them at risk of harm. My opinion is that this would be a positive experience for N and L and they should spend time with him in Eritrea. She also notes that the children would like to see the father's house.
f) The father says the mother's offer to allow the children to go in three years' time is illogical. The risks then would be the same as they are now. The fact that the children are then older and are able to say what they want to the Eritrean court if it came to that makes no real difference.
g) The father says he needs the passports for various reasons when he is in Holland. He may require them to fly to Euro-Disney or to Germany. He says the children have missed out on trips because they did not have their passports. He says he may need them for identification reasons, in particular in relation to medical treatment and that he requires them for checking into hotels and suchlike.
h) Overall Ms Bhari says the father should be trusted by the court to act in the children's welfare interests and that the balance shows that it would be more beneficial to them to travel to Eritrea and for the father to have access to their passports than any detriment arising out of any risks.
The Family History and the Evidence
Mar 1969 | F born in Eritrea | |
May 1973 | M born in Eritrea | |
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M moves to England as a child | ||
2002 | M and F meet in Africa | |
2004 | F works for Acer in Switzerland having relocated from Holland M moves to London when pregnant with A. Parties marry in London F's work moves to Switzerland. Thereafter the pattern of the family's life was that the mother and children lived in London whilst the father lived in Switzerland. The mother worked as a schoolteacher and so the family was reunited during school holidays, I think mainly in Switzerland although also in London. This somewhat unconventional arrangement continued for financial reasons until the parties separated. |
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2005 | A born in London. | |
2007 | N born in London | |
2009 | A dies of meningitis in London | |
Spring/Summer 2011 | M and N travel to Eritrea for family holiday. No difficulty entering or leaving | |
2011 | L born F is made redundant |
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2012 | As a result of the father's redundancy M and F discuss F relocating to London from Switzerland which is he does not wish to do. They therefore looked at other options in particular relocating to Africa which was something they had been thinking about as a long-term goal for some time. The father was clear in his oral evidence that he only considered relocating to Eritrea. He said in terms that this was what the parties had decided they would do. However he then conceded that the mother was not happy that Eritrea should be the only option and so it was agreed that she would travel in the Summer to explore the possibilities. M goes to Uganda and Eritrea for 2 weeks. F cares for children in Switzerland. Upon the mother's return she proposes family relocate to Uganda. The father was not happy with this he preferring Eritrea. His father already owned a business there which he wanted to become involved in. In September F travels to Eritrea and on return again proposed family relocate to Eritrea. No agreement reached; M prefers options her father and family can offer in Uganda and F prefers option his family can offer in Eritrea. In December M travelled to Eritrea. I believe this was because the mother was seeking to find a compromise, she being far more flexible in her approach than the father. However after having looked at matters on the ground in Eritrea she concluded she would not wish to relocate the children and herself there. On M's return, F was very cross that the mother had refused to agree a move to Eritrea. The father left the family home that day. It was quite clear from his evidence that he viewed this as a breach of what he considered was an agreement to relocate to Eritrea. It is clear from the M's evidence she had never agreed to move to Eritrea but rather had agreed to consider Eritrea. I accept the mother's account the father returned to Holland very angry that his plan had not been accepted. | |
Jan 2013 | F travels to Eritrea | |
Feb 2013 | During the school half term the mother says she proposed she and children travel to see F for that holiday but F says he is busy. The father belatedly said in evidence that he wanted them to come but she refused. I prefer the Mother's evidence. Having seen the father give evidence I'm quite satisfied that he was being difficult he being offended that the mother had not agreed to relocate to Eritrea. He was cutting off his nose to spite his face. I'm satisfied that the mother was willing to bring the children to Holland but that the father said he was too busy. |
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Easter 2013 | I'm satisfied that the same situation arose and that the M proposed she and children travel to see F for Easter and the F again said he is busy. In consequence the father did not see his children for four months at this time, prioritise in his pride over their welfare needs. He did continue to have telephone contact but this is no substitute for face-to-face contact particularly with children as young as L was at this point in time. |
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Summer 2013 | At some point in the summer of 2013 the father made the move to Eritrea. I accept that the M was unable to contact F in Eritrea and he is not around to see the children. Whether this is because he was being difficult, or whether he had not provided contact details because the mother was only contacting Holland I cannot determine. The father's evidence on this was most unusual. He says he was in contact with the girls roughly twice weekly prior to going but that he didn't tell the mother (or presumably the girls) because she already knew he was moving to Eritrea as it had been agreed by her previously. This illustrates both his inability to accommodate any other view than his own and how difficult he could be even if it meant sacrificing the children's welfare to his own pride. Given the father was not seeing the children in England and had relocated to Eritrea it is hardly surprising that the mother chose to pursue a relocation to Africa herself. Given that he was providing not a penny of financial support to the mother was an additional reason for her seeking to rely on her own resources in order to build a stable life for herself and children. Given that it would bring the children closer to where the father was in practical terms was a benefit. I accept that the mother did not obtain the father's consent and in legal terms it may have been a wrongful removal although it might well have been argued that the father had given up the exercise of his rights of custody given his behaviour over the preceding months. In any event the net result was that M relocates and children enter school in Ethiopia and she starts work. They developed a new life in Ethiopia. The fact that they continue to mention the existence of a dog to the Cafcass officer and missing him indicates in a small way the extent to which they became settled in Ethiopia. I accept that there was a period of time when the father was unable to communicate with the mother as a result of this move. I do not accept that it was for as long as three months that may have been more like six weeks. M says she was unable to contact him and she left her contact details with sister who gave them to H as soon as he contacted the family flat. There plainly was contact taking place by about October because arrangements were made for the children to return to London in order to see their father. |
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Dec 2013 | E-mail: F-M about contact Contact in London at M's home and M vacates her flat to allow him to stay. By this time the children had not seen their father for a year. For L this was an incredibly long time and she must have felt very unfamiliar around him. I accept that the mother took steps to ensure that the children were able to really engage appropriately with the father. |
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Easter 2014 | Contact in London. M returns from Ethiopia for holiday and F has contact | |
Summer 2014 | Contact in London. The mother again returned to London to ensure that contact took place. I accept what the mother says about L wouldn't go with the father and he had to bring her back in order to get her help. I thought the father's assertion that he could not recall this was not the truth. This is another example of the mother promoting contact in her account being more reliable than that of the father | |
Dec 2014 | M proposes contact in London. F seeks contact in Holland so children can see PGM. M says she will take. F wants passports and to take children himself. M refuses. M takes them to Holland and settles L for 2-3 days F says M insisted on supervising. |
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4 Jan 2015 | E-mail: F-M: In this letter the father says this "...it is imperative that this separation agreement get settled before you go back to Ethiopia. If you go to Ethiopia without settling this issue, or at least know where we stand with the matter of the children, I will have but no choice to go via a lawyer and will instruct the lawyer that I haven't given you the permission nor that I agree that you take the children away from me to Ethiopia. It is all about the kids, we need to settle this matter for the sake of the children make sure that they get to spend quality time with me without the supervision. The father sent a copy of a separation agreement with that which included that any change in the residence of the children can't and shouldn't be made without his consent, that he is to visit the children at any time which will be agreed beforehand, there will be no country restriction as to where I can spend or take my children during their holidays..." The tone of both the letter and the separation agreement are autocratic. The net effect of this letter and the mother's refusal to agree to its demands was that the father refused to allow the children to return to their home in Ethiopia. Thus having travelled to London for a holiday in the full expectation that they would return to their schools, home and environment in Ethiopia they ended up back in England having to put together their lives here again. Given that the father had done nothing to require the children's return from Ethiopia between the end of 2013 and the end of 2014 and had thus acquiesced in their making their home in Ethiopia the mother would have been within her legal rights to have returned immediately to Ethiopia. However again perhaps because of erroneous legal advice but I conclude also because the mother seeks to find a consensual way forward with the father if at all possible she accepted she should remain here until the matter was concluded. In the event it took until November 2015 before a court order was agreed and even then it did not provide for her to relocate with the children back to Ethiopia. |
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Nov 2015 | Court order | E2 |
2015-2018 | In the years since that order was made the girls have made their lives in England again along with the mother. They have reintegrated into their school (it being interesting to note that their English school observed that N's performance had improved following her period of time in private education in Ethiopia). The children have seen their father in Holland on a regular basis for a week at Christmas, for a week at Easter and for half of the summer holidays spending time with their extended paternal family, aunts and uncles and cousins in Holland. They have also been able to see their grandfather and step-grandmother in Holland. I do not accept the father's account of the supposedly difficulties is which he says he either has or will face in Holland in relation to the passports. As I've already said I found it difficult to follow his evidence in relation to the family trips to Germany or Disney. Within the Schengen area travel documents would not be required being a borderless area. As a Dutch citizen I do not understand how the father would face difficulties accessing health or other resources in Holland and nor do I see why he would need to produce passports to check into a hotel. |
The Expert Evidence
Cafcass
i) The children speak English as a first language and present as confident polite and engaging.
ii) The people who are important to them are their mum, dad, grandparents and friends. They both chose happy faces for their mum and their dad. They recalled positive memories of spending time with both of their parents.
iii) Both children recalled memories of living in Ethiopia with their mother. N talked about her dog and how she missed him. They were very excited about moving to Uganda.
iv) Both children spoke of having a close relationship with their father and that he was an important person in their lives which suggested to Ms Brown that they have some consistency in speaking to him on the phone.
v) Both parents confirmed that they communicate well to ensure that the agreed spending time arrangements are complied with.
vi) Ms Brown observes that Eritrea is the country of the children's origins and where their father lives and works and that they also have extended family members who they can spend time with. Ms Brown observes that the father moves freely in and out of Eritrea, presents as a caring father who would not place the children in a potentially dangerous situation.
vii) N wrote a letter to me in which she writes 'Dear Judge I would like to live in Uganda from N'. L is too young really to understand the proceedings.
viii) Ms Brown observes that the children experience safe and loving care from both of their parents. They need to be protected from experiencing any further adversity in the future.
ix) Ms Brown opines that spending time in Eritrea with their father would be a positive experience for them and given her views of the father and the risks he poses she recommended that the children be allowed to spend one week per year in Eritrea.
Welfare Evaluation
(a) the ascertainable wishes and feelings of the child concerned (considered in the light of their age and understanding);
I accept that the children would probably like to visit the father and his home in Eritrea and to see Asmara and experience the life the father lives in Eritrea. I do not believe they would have any views in relation to the other issues in play although no doubt they would wish to be able to undertake other activities for instance Euro-Disney or to visit Germany with their father and the extended family.
(b) their physical, emotional and educational needs;
I accept that the children have an emotional need and indeed an educational need to gain further exposure to Eritrean life and culture and in particular their father's life.
c) the likely effect on them of any change in their circumstances;
The effect of the children visiting Eritrea and returning to their mother's primary care in Uganda will only be a beneficial one. The effect on them of not being returned to their mother's care would be immensely harmful psychologically. They have always been cared for by their mother and have never lived with their father, or in Eritrea.
(d) their age, sex, background and any characteristics of the children which the court considers relevant;
The children are of an age where they would be very vulnerable to unplanned changes. They have already experienced a sudden change in their living arrangements when they were forced to remain in England in January 2015.
(e) any harm which the children have suffered or are at risk of suffering;
The magnitude of the risks which face the children if they visit Eritrea are different depending on what risk one considers. I consider the risks of the children being denied an exit Visa or of being subjected to compulsory conscription in Eritrea to be very low having regard to the reality of the family's ability to travel into and out of Eritrea and to avoid conscription. However it is not non-existent, and given the nature of Eritrea as a state there is always the possibility of sudden change. I also consider the risk of the father retaining the children in Eritrea to be low but not non-existent. There are a number of instances of the father prioritising his rights over the children's welfare in particular in January 2015 when he was prepared to uproot the children from the lives they had embedded themselves in in Ethiopia in order to insist on a separation agreement or a court dictated outcome as to their future. I have no doubt that this was harmful to them and was a significant failing in the father's ability to prioritise the children's welfare. There are other instances, not least the father cutting off the children when he didn't get his own way over the relocation to Eritrea. I therefore have to consider that there is a possibility that for reasons of his own the father might see some advantage in keeping the children in Eritrea in order to extract some concession from the mother in some shape or form.The risk to the children of emotional harm if the father took such a course is huge. Depending on how long the situation were to exist for it might be capable of amelioration but one cannot underestimate the potential impact of such a radical change in their situation.
In any event there is no security at all that the father offers or that can on the balance of probabilities be achieved in Eritrea to ensure that if the children visit they will return. It is not clear whether a mirror order could be obtained and the father offers no financial security.
(f) how capable each of his parents, and any other person in relation to whom the court considers the question to be relevant, is of meeting their needs;
I consider the mother to be fully capable of meeting all of the children's physical, emotional and educational needs. In particular she is capable of recognising and fulfilling their emotional need for for a relationship with their father as he will permit.I consider the father is fully capable of meeting the children's physical needs and partially meeting their emotional and educational needs. He is not sufficiently focused on the children, and that may be a reflection of the fact that he has not been an integral component of their lives but has lived away in a different country for the majority of their young lives. He chose to move to Eritrea alone rather than to pursue a course which would have led to him being more involved in their lives. This is another indication of him doing what suits him rather than what suits the children. I appreciate there may be practical limitations on his ability to work in certain countries but his leaving on his own in December 2012 and moving to Eritrea did not prioritise the children. There are therefore limitations in his capability.
(g) the range of powers available to the court under this Act in the proceedings in question
I can make an order with a condition precedent in respect of the registration of the English order.I could make an order which permitted visits to Eritrea, a mirror order were made there or if the father were to provide security.
Conclusion