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Denmark House
169-173 Stockton Street
Middlehaven
Middlesbrough
TS2 1BY
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The Respondent, father, in person
Approved anonymised Judgment
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Crown Copyright ©
Mr Justice Bodey:
A. Introductory
B. Background
C. The Applicable Law
D. The Welfare Checklist
"… The mother engages well with the school and has attended parents' evenings. B speaks openly and positively about home with no concerns from the school. Due to his medical needs, staff monitor him closely. Staff in school observe the mother to have a loving and warm relationship with him and are really pleased with the progress which he has made this year."
"C's mother is approachable and shows interest in what C has been doing at the nursery … C is a happy and friendly member of the nursery class. She enjoys nursery and participates in all activities with energy and enthusiasm."
E. The Children's Guardian
"It is my view that the father would value the opportunity to spend time with B and C on a regular weekly basis. However to date this has not happened for two main reasons. [The father's] youngest child has suffered health problems from birth and spent time in hospital which resulted in [the father] focusing his attention on this child and taking the opportunity to see B and C, when they spend time with their paternal grandmother [D]. On other occasions when the father was in a position to see B and C, the mother would inform him that the children did not wish to spend time with him. In my view the children are too young to make such decisions for themselves and, with some encouragement from their mother, they would enjoy spending time with their father and his family. I feel that the mother is not promoting the contact between the children and their father and this [the application to relocate the children] may be an attempt on her behalf to make it easier for her to take the children out of the country. In my view, this is not prioritising the needs of the children and instead is focusing on her own needs."
F. Discussion
(1) Whilst she expressed concern in the witness box regarding the financial arrangements as they would be in the United States of America, she agreed that she had not gone through this aspect with the mother in any depth. On the other hand, I was satisfied, having heard the mother in evidence, that whilst she and Mr Y will not be over well off in the United States, their financial situation there should be viable.(2) Mrs McCourt did not see or speak to D, the paternal grandmother. This was a pity. D has been a key figure in the dynamics of the relationship between the mother and the father and as a go-between in respect of contact. She would have a very clear impression as to why contact has been so sporadic. Indeed, she made her views quite clear in writing on social media to the effect that it is sometimes down to her son's disorganisation and lack of consistency: see, for example, 'miscellaneous bundle' page 37 and page 39. At the first of these reference points, D refers to the father (her son) as 'a nightmare'. She accepts (I paraphrase) that he has had a lot on his hands with baby Z:
"… but I have told him over and over to make time for B and C … I could shake him sometimes, I really could."Then again at 'miscellaneous' 39, responding to the mother's expressing her annoyance with the father because he had not stuck to arrangements, D replied:
"… he can't have it all his way when he isn't being consistent. He is lucky you are so understanding."I accept that these comments are in the nature of hearsay; but they were said right at the very time and I see no reason to consider that they reflect anything other than D's genuine experience of trying to act as a go-between on contact.
(3) Mrs McCourt's second suggested explanation for the unsatisfactory contact (cited by me at paragraph 42 above) was that the mother had effectively been difficult about the father seeing the children. That, however, as she accepted when I asked her some questions, depends on disputed factual issues between the parties. Such issues must be a matter for the court to determine, having heard and assessed all the evidence, and not a matter for the CAFCASS officer to determine.
G. Conclusion