FAMILY DIVISION
B e f o r e :
(In Private)
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C- | Applicant | |
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B | Respondent |
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MISS M. TAYLOR (instructed by Kilic & Kilic) appeared on behalf of the Respondent Father.
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SIR PAUL COLERIDGE:
1 firstly, he is faced with the fact the German court has already dealt with it; but,
2 secondly, even as a matter of English law, for a "defence of consent", as it is described in the Convention, to be established it is necessary to have the clearest evidence that the party who let the children come to this country knew exactly what it was they were consenting to, that it was not just a partial consent or a partial indication for a temporary arrangement. In other words that this was a permanent and intended to be permanent long term arrangement.
1 firstly they have to be satisfied that the words used by the children really do amount to an objection to returning as opposed to merely a fairly vague wish not to leave the parent with whom they are presently living;
2 secondly (and I think crucially in this case) the court has to be satisfied that they were of a sufficient age and maturity for their objections to be given proper and appropriate weight.
1 firstly the mother was unable to cope with the children while they were in her sole care;
2 secondly, that the father has always had concerns about the mother's mental wellbeing, and that she constantly changes her mind;
3 thirdly, that there is some doubt about whether there would be suitable accommodation for the children if they returned;
4 fourthly really generally that the mere removal of the children from their settled home – and I have no doubt at all that they have settled in with the father perfectly well – would place them at risk of emotional harm if they were ordered to be returned; and
5 finally, and really allied to that point, the disruption of their education would also cause them some considerable harm.