SITTING AT BOURNEMOUTH
B e f o r e :
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In Re W (Children) |
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- Maintains the children's place and relationships with the birth parents;
- I and G would have contact with their extended birth family;
- The children have made some progress with existing level of support;
- All the parents say that they love and care about their children;
- The sibling relationship would be retained;
- B has had good interaction with G at contact;
- The parenting assessments show that the mother can meet the children's basic needs.
- The expert opinion that raises serious concerns about the mother's impaired capacity to put the children's needs ahead of her own;
- The mother's inability to reflect upon the matters which are raised with her about her care of the children;
- The mother's inability to appreciate the impact upon the development of the children of her behaviour and her lack of insight and empathy;
- Her lack of understanding as to why she should comply with advice;
- Lack of a supportive family network;
- None of the parents accept responsibility for the children's situation and condition;
- The lack of open and honest dealing with the local authority.
- It is probable that the children's emotional and physical needs will be met in an adoptive placement;
- Adopters will have been fully assessed as being able to meet the needs of these two children;
- The children are to be placed together. G is of an age when she will be able to cope with the transition from her mother's care. This may more difficult for I but is likely to be successful if done with care and careful planning;
- The children each have an avoidant attachment with the mother;
- Letter box contact and life story work will provide the necessary understanding of and link with the birth family;
- The children will be safe and secure and not suffer significant harm;
- Living in a stable household will allow the children to develop into balanced and emotionally stable adults.
62. Factors against:
- The children permanently lose their relationship with their mother who loves them;
- They will also lose the relationship with their respective fathers and other family members;
- They lose their sense of identity as part of their birth family;
- I is of an age at which she is likely to find a move more difficult to manage;
- Adoptions are not always successful. If this were to breakdown the children would suffer further emotional harm.
HHJ Bond 5th June 2015.