Case No: NE15C00146
In the FAMILY COURT at
NEWCASTLE UPON TYNE
The Quayside
Newcastle upon Tyne
NE1 3LA
17th November 2015
B E F O R E:
HIS HONOUR JUDGE SIMON WOOD
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Judgment
His Honour Judge Simon Wood:
(i) M's very limited engagement in the assessment. She attended two out of seven of the sessions;
(ii) her continued use of cannabis and alcohol, as well as smoking throughout her pregnancy;
(iii) toxicology tests which showed that she was also taking cocaine, something she has always denied;
(iv) her denial of any intimate relationship with F, in the face of evidence highly suggestive to the contrary. In fact, she named a 17 year old boy with whom she said she had slept twice as the father, as part of the denial that F was the father;
(v) her exclusion from education, by reason of her behaviour, that is to say her attitude, engaging in physical fights, with a refusal to engage in alternative provision put in place;
(vi) despite identifying her parents as sources of support, their inability to safeguard her, the difficult relationship she had with MGM in particular and the volatility of the relationship with both parents and her sister were all factors;
(vii) her offending and placing herself in risky situations, for example, at 20 weeks being in a car with F and another male, being attacked by them, including being kicked in the stomach, refusing to give the police a statement and having the appearance of being under the influence of some substance;
(viii) her going missing, for example, on 14th February 2015 she was found in a hotel with F and with class A drugs, as a consequence of which F was issued with a harbouring notice;
(ix) her apparently being subject to domestic abuse, direct violence, at F's hands;
(x) her own upbringing, the domestic abuse I have referred to, sometimes frank fighting between the parents, drugs, her sister having self-harmed as well.
(i) The consistent request for regular drug testing, that was raised at court at the very first hearing and every hearing thereafter, was thwarted by her refusal to register with a general practitioner. There were no drug tests at all from C's birth until the middle of September, a period of almost six months.
(ii) Consistent with what she says, she now is seen to test positive for cannabis and negative for cocaine, but the cannabis remains a concern. It has continued now throughout her second pregnancy, despite advice for the second time to the contrary. She has told the social worker that she uses it to cope and the social worker therefore asks how this mother would cope with the full time care of a young baby without it.
(iii) The relationship with F continued, certainly until September. The local authority regard it as abusive. M says that she now recognises that it was, but the steps taken to address it have only very recently been taken, arguably from about the middle of September, a full six months since C's date of birth.
(iv) She has, for significant periods, had no home. She fell out with MGM and led a nomadic life, between MGF, F, or friends. There came a time when she said that she and F were looking for somewhere to live together. She now is living with MGM but is hoping to get some supported accommodation, such as might be available at a place called Jubilee Court.
(v). For most of this period she has had no access to benefits.
(vi) Her relationship with her parents has remained volatile, with periods when relations with MGM broke off altogether. As recently as 22nd September, in support of positive change she prayed in aid the fact that she was living with MGF, but by 23rd October was living with MGM, which she attributes to the fact that F is aware of his address, but not aware of MGM's address. But despite that, she was exposed to a serious incident at MGM's home on 12th October, in which a fight broke out, when MA assaulted MGM and M's intervention cost her a kick in the stomach and a trip to hospital, which fortunately confirmed that the baby was unharmed.
(vii) Isolated from young people, out of education, she has not accessed mother and baby groups, until recently seeking out F's support, losing her temper quickly on being challenged.
(viii) She was herself reportedly assaulted in May, allegedly, she said at the time, by a neighbour, declining contact with C because of the injuries which were said to include a black eye, a sore back and a possible fractured arm. On that occasion, despite declining to indicate where she was, and F's mother allegedly trying to conceal her and mislead the local authority, F's father disclosed that she was in fact in their house and the police attended. She refused to follow the advice of her own social worker to go to MGF's home, or to seek medical attention. She declined to make a complaint, because she said she had been drunk at the time that she was assaulted. A reference to a MARAC followed.
(i) The stability of her placement, citing the recent and, until then at any rate, unexplained move from MGF's to MGM's, without discussion or explanation.
(ii) The concerns as to the relationship between M and MGM, which she characterised as "fragile and volatile" with many periods when they do not talk and that had been quite an extensive period in the time that this case has proceeded.
(iii) The concern that MGF describes MGM as "undermining" the relationship between him and M, generally causing difficulties for all.
(iv) The violent incident at MGM's home on 12th October, a reflection on MGM and M who had no concept of having put herself at risk.
(v) M's plan to live alone. That is something she has never done before.
(vi) Her only very recent engagement with agencies such as Barnardo's, at which she had had two sessions, domestic violence work. After a false start she has had an initial assessment. The general difficulty that workers have described in making and keeping in contact with her.
(vii) There is a lack of certainty, in the social worker's mind at any rate, as to the finality of the separation between the parents, despite there being no evidence of sightings between them.
(viii) The continued use of cannabis as a coping mechanism for stress. She makes the point that M has never cared for a child independently, she has never lived independently and she has a baby on the way. The scope for stress is therefore self-evident.
"I never agreed with her at the time."
"I want the chance to show that I can maintain the changes."
"Police and court don't stop F."
"He hit us a lot. He was on drugs. When he's on drugs, he's not the kind of person to be with."
"I don't feel like I need to smoke it when I have him."
"My boundaries were different to MGF's. The children are aware of them and that is what keeps them away from us."
"She did listen to us eventually."
"Prioritising the relationship over and above the needs of C"
as well as the failure of drug testing, the delayed medical help regarding the pregnancy, despite telling her that she was pregnant as long ago as July and the minimal involvement with services. That report was written on 17th September and none of it was challenged. She expressed her extreme concern about F, who told her that he had been "demonised" unjustly by the local authority. She noted that each parent had but limited and inconsistent family support M, in particular, lacking a positive role model. She identified the key to success would be M's ability to accept the need for change. Mindful of the fact that adoption was the last resort, in a careful analysis she concluded it was one of those exceptional cases. Whilst she was ready to credit what M had done in the six weeks or so since that report was written, it was not enough, in her view, to warrant a change of plan.
(i) It is accepted that M's childhood was adverse, with extensive local authority involvement, affording her a poor idea of what is required from a parent.
(ii) It is accepted that M was exposed to family arguments, as well as violence from MA. In fact, although it was only accepted that she had been exposed to parental argument, I am satisfied on the evidence I have heard that she was exposed to a great deal of parental discord and violence.
(iii) M accepts having lived a chaotic life. I find she is extremely vulnerable, by virtue of her lack of education, stable home, drug use, including whilst pregnant twice, and having entered into a very concerning relationship which was frankly abusive. M emphasises the steps that she has now taken to address that.
(iv) The allegation of poor coping mechanisms and an inability to engage is met with the response that she was immature and reliance is placed upon the recent change. An allegation that M permitted F to have contact, in breach of a child protection plan, has not been pursued as a separate issue.
(v) F readily admits the use of drugs and the misuse of alcohol. He undoubtedly becomes violent in such circumstances. There is no convincing evidence that he is addressing such issues.
(vi) C was conceived as a result of child sexual exploitation by F; M was 15; F was 25. It was nothing less than a statutory rape. Despite knowing her age from 14th February 2014 at the latest, he pursued that relationship and C was conceived.
(vii) The source of M's drugs was not separately pursued, but it is plain that she potentially has other sources, if the relationship with F is over;
(viii) It was an abusive relationship and included actual and threatened violence, including violence against M when she has been pregnant.
(ix) M accepts that she was unable to recognise or act upon the risk that he posed and she lied, the court finds, to conceal that.
"It should occur only in exceptional circumstances and when motivated by overriding requirements pertaining to the child's welfare. In short, where nothing else will do."
"Making a child subject to such a plan should be a last resort, where no other course is possible."
"The statutory language imposes a stringent test, it is the child's welfare that has to be shown to require parental consent to adoption to be dispensed with."
"Whenever a court is called upon to approve such a plan, there must be proper evidence from both the local authority and the Guardian, addressing all the options realistically possible, with an analysis of the arguments for and against, as well as an adequately reasoned judgment.."
citing the observations of McFarlane LJ in Re G (A Child) [2013] EWCA Civ 965, in a holistic way, rather than a linear way, in order to decide which of the options best meets the duty to afford paramount consideration to the child's welfare.
(i) the opportunity for C to be cared for by M;
(ii) the maintenance of links with his birth family thereby being assured;
(iii) the positive sense of identity, as part of that family, that C would gain;
(iv) M's obvious love and affection for C, which, when available, translates into the good quality provision of care, whereby his basic needs will be well met;
(v) her positive engagement in contact, at least from the time immediately after the initial break down of the foster placement.
(i) this young mother has only recently escaped an extremely abusive relationship which was, in her case, addictive. It was abusive on numerous levels; sexually, violently and drugs, and it has proved very hard to break from;
(ii) M has had a very difficult start to life, with difficult relationships between her parents and between her parents and her that has rendered her vulnerable and denied her the type of role model she needed;
(iii) each of those two concerns fed into the failure of the mother and baby placement as well as her risk taking behaviour, especially drugs and alcohol, which have put her in risky situations and contributed to her chaotic and unstable life to date;
(iv) the risk to C from all or any of those factors give rise to a significant concern that C's needs would not be met consistently, safely or at all;
(v) although M has recently indicated signs of engagement and a determination to change it, it is very late and arises at a time when there is no confidence in her having found either stability or a complete escape from an abusive partner. It is set against a background of concern as to just how open and honest M is and it occurs at a time when, within three months, she is due to give birth to another baby;
(vi) there is therefore a considerable issue whether the change is sufficiently solid to warrant what would constitute significant delay in the decision making for C.
(i) The likelihood that C's emotional and physical needs would be fully met in an adoptive placement;
(ii) he would be placed with a carer or carers who would have been comprehensively assessed as having the capacity to look after a child and be specifically matched as suitable and equipped to meet C's needs;
(iii) there is no likelihood that C would suffer significant harm in the care of an adopter or adopters. He would be safe and secure and thereby avoid exposure to the risk of harm arising from the risks that have been identified in respect of M;
(iv) as a consequence of being provided with stable consistent care he would have a good chance to live a normal life in which he could develop into a balanced and emotionally stable person;
(v) C is now eight months old. At his relatively young age he will be able to manage the transition from foster care to adoption without suffering undue emotional harm.
(i) the loss of the direct relationship with M, who plainly loves him, can meet his physical needs and is desperate to care for him;
(ii) C would lose the potential of relationships with his maternal and paternal family and possibly his, as yet unborn, sibling. Such relationships are of course extremely valuable to a child, even where the family cannot all live together;
(iii) he would lose his identity as a member of his birth family and the court knows that a sense of identity is extremely important, as part of any person's development as they grow up;
(iv) although most adoptions succeed, a not insignificant number break down with the result of further emotional harm to the child in question.
I am reminded again that adoption should only be considered when absolutely necessary and in a child's best interests. It really is the course of absolute last resort.
(i) M's extreme youth.
(ii) The nature of the abuse to which she was exposed.
(iii) The efforts that M has made to address the concerns, by her admittedly late engagement.
(iv) The importance of the support that MGM can now offer, given that the impediment to that support, the continued relationship with F, has been removed.
"M has 12 weeks in which to prove to professionals that she is able to meet the needs of C and address professional concerns. As a starting point, I would suggest that she needs to be open and honest in her dealings with professionals so as to inspire confidence to build a positive working relationship. M must accept that C is a young baby who cannot wait indefinitely for M to make the necessary changes to her lifestyle."
End of judgment
We hereby certify that this judgment has been approved by His Honour Judge Simon Wood.
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