ON APPEAL FROM PRINCIPAL REGISTRY OF THE FAMILY DIVISION
HHJ BRASSE
FD 12 Z 00234
Strand, London, WC2A 2LL |
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B e f o r e :
LADY JUSTICE BLACK
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DAME JANET SMITH
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Appellant |
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LONDON BOROUGH OF CAMDEN -and- R. B. -and- T & O A-B (Children through their Guardian, Mark Kalinauckas) |
1st Respondent 2nd Respondent 3rd and 4th Respondents |
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Anthony KIRK Q.C. and Miss B. MORRIS (instructed by Camden Legal Services Dept.) for the 1st Respondent
Miss K. RENSTEN (instructed by Jacinta Lonnen of Eskinazi & Co.) for the 3rd and 4th Respondents
Hearing date: 26th September 2012
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Dame Janet Smith:
Introduction
The factual background
"I find that she (the mother) has had a longstanding alcohol problem which impedes her ability to meet the children's needs. She refuses to acknowledge that this is so and hence is unwilling to take any steps to address the problem through accepting professional help - for example from the Family Alcohol Service. She dearly loves her children, but her parenting has been very inconsistent and they have both been exposed to many distressing scenes between the parents or when (the mother) was drunk. Since the children have been in care, her conduct in contact sessions has shown a marked inability to prioritise their emotional needs above her own. She has been impervious to advice. The likelihood of her addressing this deficiency in her parenting to bring about change is remote. She is convinced that all the evidence which is unfavourable to her has been mis-recorded or even fabricated. This is the opposite of the truth. She has shown no insight into the deficiencies of her manner of relating to the children or meeting their needs. Her stance of adamant denial and an insuperable sense of victimhood; that her children have been unjustifiably removed from her care; and that she is a perfectly adequate but misrepresented parent will not change in the foreseeable future. Sadly, there is no real chance of her capacity as a parent improving as she feels she has nothing of significance to learn."
Evidence prepared for the revocation hearing
38. The mother was given numerous opportunities to seek help and to change during the last two sets of proceedings. She did not take these opportunities. The Court made its decision last September, prospective adoptive parents have been found and are ready to take these vulnerable children into their home and it is my view that the placement order should not be revoked. The changes the mother has made are to be applauded but it is early days in her recovery, her alcohol issues are long standing and there are significant questions for her parenting skills. If the children are not placed now it may be too late for them to be adopted in the future. If the children were placed with their mother this may break down.
39. The key issue is the children's timescales. They need to be in a family that can meet their needs for the rest of their childhood now and rehabilitation has been tried once in the first set of proceedings and failed. It is therefore my view that to allow the children to return home is too risky and that the placement with the identified prospective adopters should be allowed to proceed.
The evidence heard and accepted at the hearing.
The judge's conclusions
"(The mother's) proposal inevitably requires further delay in making a decision about their future. She would need to undergo psychotherapy to help her mentalise the children and see the situation from their point of view. Only if and when she was consistently able to do this would it be justifiable to re-introduce the children to her. Re-introduction would convey the message that they would be returning to her and so there would need to be a high confidence that that could be achievable. To avoid further unsettling them, there would need to be a very high level of confidence (my emphasis on both occasions) that rehabilitation would be successful. If (the mother) was unable to do this, the process would have to be stopped and reversed. The children would have inevitably therefore become unsettled and confused. They already have a reduced ability to trust adults, as emerged from their work with the Multi-Agency Liaison Team. Their ability in the future to trust plans made by adults would have been once again shaken and damaged. They may well have difficulty in forming secure attachments to future carers. They would have lost the chance of being placed with the identified adopters and it would be likely to be more difficult to find new adopters for them, as they would be that much older, they would be still be in a sibship and because of their racial origin. The local authority would try to place them together, as separation would be harmful as they are close, but if that were not possible it may be necessary to achieve permanence for each of them and one might end up in long term foster care and the other in adoption, permanently separated. Looked at in this light, there are considerable risks."
"It is not possible to find therefore, on the balance of probabilities that (the mother) will be able to maintain alcohol recovery indefinitely. There are still too many identifiable sources of stress in her life. She has no work at the moment, she lacks a social support network, there may be money worries looming and her relationship with the father is fraught with risk. The care of the children would be a significant addition to the stresses. Furthermore it is not possible to find, on the balance of probabilities that she will be able to learn –through psychotherapy or otherwise, how to mentalise the children, to keep them in mind, within a timescale they could wait for. No therapist or programme of therapy has been identified by her. She would have to undergo assessment of her aptitude to this kind of therapy. An assessment of timescale and prospects of success would have to be made.
I agree with the submission of the local authority that all of this is still too speculative. There are still too many deficiencies in (the mother's) understanding of where she fell short in her parenting. These were clearly identified by the independent social worker whose evidence I accept. It would be far too risky, therefore, at the moment, to place the children in her care. In my judgment, these children cannot wait any longer. …..
…. To accede to this application would not be in the best interests of the children throughout their lives and accordingly the application must sadly be dismissed."
The grounds of appeal
"She needs to recognize her own mental state and to see this as separate from her behaviour and actions. If (the mother) fully engages with ongoing psychotherapy and EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing) she will in turn have greater awareness about her own thoughts, emotions, needs and desires. Her capacity to see and understand the mental states, behaviour and needs of others will also increase, originating from her own personal insights."
"In my clinical judgment, I do have concern regarding the mid-and long-term future for (the mother's) sons. Inevitably, they will want and need to re-engage with their mother at some point in the future. It would be further distressing for them if, as teenagers or as young men, they hear that their mother took every effort to address her own issues and to gain care and custody of her sons, for these endeavours to be turned down."
"By focusing on her own self-identity as an individual, then as a mother, she has successfully re-established her sense of self. This is manifest through her increased confidence, improved inner strength and by 'finding her voice' – being able to articulate her needs, emotions and cognitions in a coherent manner.
The core focus of her therapy has been her own identity. By strengthening her true sense of self, she is better equipped to form close trusting relationships, particularly with her own children. Directly following the therapeutic focus on self-identity, I have focussed upon her role and identity as a mother to her sons. Following this I have addressed her role and identity in her home environment and what this would look like with a young family in her care. Finally this I have addressed her role in the local community where she would raise and integrate her children."
"I have worked on (the mother's) personal work/life balance and how this must be well managed when raising young children. She understands that her personal well-being and health is essential in providing good role modelling and ensuring that she can maintain healthy relationships with her children.
(The mother) and I have worked on the needs of her children, ranging from their physical, mental, emotional and socialization needs to guarantee their healthy development. Considering the limited contact that (the mother) has had with her children, it would take time to again build trust, rapport and intimacy in their relationships together. It is paramount that her children feel safe, protected and loved. (The mother) has demonstrated a good appreciation of this notion, for example by her considered response of how to bring correction when necessary and doing so in a loving manner.
Through the process of working on her own self-identity and her own boundaries, (the mother) now demonstrate an increased insight into the necessity of boundaries in the lives of her children. We have discussed in detail how she would ensure that her children have a daily routine that will bring a sense of structure and safety. Consistency when teaching boundaries, right from wrong, and bringing correction is paramount."
There follow a number of paragraphs in which Ms Green says that the mother has 'identified' the need for her children's development through the provision of proper food and attention to physical and dental health, clean clothes regular exercise and routine sleep patterns. Ms Green also says that the mother has 'identified' the mental needs of her children through such things as commitment and support through education at home and at school. She has also 'identified' that her children's emotional development will require the provision of safety, attention, affirmation, guidance, listening, acceptance, nurturing and the freedom to play and have fun.
"(The mother) has fully engaged with ongoing Integrative Psychotherapy and EMDR. Consequently, her awareness has increased about her own thoughts, emotions, needs and desires. Her capacity to see and understand the mental states, behaviour and needs of her children has also increased, originating from her own personal insights."
And at paragraph 15:
"One key objective in therapy has been for (the mother) to form increased attachment. The primary mode we have used to increase her attachment levels is by working with unconscious material. She has responded very well to EMDR, Mindfulness-based therapy, Schema Therapy and Psychodynamic free association. Consequently, she has proven her ability to engage in a trusting relationship, albeit on a professional level."
"I have reasonable confidence to believe that (the mother) is fully capable of parenting her own children. The most essential need for any child is to feel loved, protected, safe and cared for. This, in my opinion, she is now able to provide.
(The mother) has demonstrated a desire to prepare herself and increase her parenting skills to her greatest ability. She has followed my recommendation to carry out additional reading. Namely one book she has read is 'The Five Languages of Love' by Gary Chapman PhD, to increase her awareness of how to express love to her children and form intimate relationships with them and with others."
Black L.J.
"This case is about the meaning of the words 'is likely to suffer significant harm'. How is the court to be satisfied of such a likelihood? This is a prediction from existing facts, often from a multitude of such facts, about what has happened in the past, about the characters and personalities of the people involved, about the things they have said and done, and so on." (my emphasis)
Longmore L.J.