ON APPEAL FROM PRINCIPAL REGISTRY OF THE FAMILY DIVISION
(HIS HONOUR JUDGE HOROWITZ QC)
Strand, London, WC2A 2LL |
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B e f o r e :
LORD JUSTICE RIMER
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LADY JUSTICE BLACK
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IN THE MATTER OF W (A child ) |
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The Respondent Mother appeared in person.
Miss Kaur (instructed by NYAS) appeared on behalf of the child by his Guardian
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Lady Justice Black:
"…this is not a case, and this is a primary finding of mine, of implacable hostility, conscious or unconscious, by a mother. It is not a case of cold hostility towards the father, inculcated directly or indirectly, into the child. The problem here is that although things have gone wrong through some degree of fault on both sides, and of that I am quite certain, it lacks, as I say, that edge of psychic manipulation and defiance that attends other intractable contact disputes."
"…and many of them amounting to a mindset in which the father brings an intensity to bear that makes him cross, that makes the mother feel at the receiving end of crossnesses and that makes [T] feel he is caught in the middle. I am satisfied that this is a substantial cause of the difficulties in which we have found ourselves. The father has said, honestly and openly, "I flare up, but I deal with it and it's a bubble and it goes down again". That may be his temperament but I do not think he fully takes on board how it presents on the other side especially to a small boy watching his parents at war and to a mother who herself is on the anxious side."
"I am afraid I have come to the clear view that I am obliged to deal with this matter today on the material that I have."
And in the course of paragraph 24:
"I do not think it would promote [T's] welfare to embark on a new round of litigation. I have considered and rejected the possibility of convening another hearing at which Mr Vobe might give oral evidence. I believe I have sufficient material and compelling other considerations to direct me to deal with the matter as I have now, and not to promote further anxiety, delay and distress to [T] directly, indirectly via his mother who has the 24 hour care of him"
Lord Justice Rimer:
Lord Justice Mummery:
Order: Appeal allowed