COURT OF APPEAL (CIVIL DIVISION)
ON APPEAL FROM THE PRINCIPAL REGISTRY OF THE FAMILY DIVISION
Her Honour Judge Hughes QC
Lower Court No: FD09F00399
Strand, London, WC2A 2LL |
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B e f o r e :
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ANTHONY ARBUTHNOT WATKINS GRUBB |
Applicant |
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JENNIFER FRANCES GRUBB |
Respondent |
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Mr James Turner QC and Mr Harry Oliver (instructed by Payne Hicks Beach) appeared on behalf of the Respondent wife.
Hearing date: 23 September 2009
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Lord Justice Wilson:
(a) that, although the wife volunteered that in effect the husband was never physically violent towards her, he was verbally abusive towards her on numerous occasions;(b) that, following the presentation of the petition for divorce, the husband continued to be domineering and controlling towards her; and
(c) that, by way of example, when the wife and two of the children arranged to go skiing in Les Arcs in March 2009, the husband made independent arrangements, contrary to the wife's wishes, to stay there and ski in order, as the judge found, to use the holiday as an opportunity to apply pressure to the wife to withdraw her suit for divorce.
"I end up each day stressed … I feel as if I am being shredded to pieces because the children would rather there was a clear cut line and I think their relationship with him would be far better if we were apart and I am absolutely torn down the middle by it all … I want to be myself again."
Mr Cusworth submitted that the wife's latter answer indicated that current circumstances in the home more greatly affected the children than herself and that, in that none of the children was now resident there other than during holidays, it betrayed the lack of urgency in the wife's case. I consider that Mr Cusworth's interpretation of it is strained. True it is that in judgment the judge did not specifically refer to either of these passages in the wife's evidence. Nevertheless she stated that, subject to one point in relation to which she had been mistaken, the wife's evidence was truthful; and when, in answer to another of the husband's written questions post-judgment, the judge observed that the wife had claimed that the current situation at Mayes House was "intolerable", I believe that, in part, she was recollecting, and accepting, these passages in the wife's evidence.
(a) Wiseman v. Simpson [1988] 1 FLR 490, in which the court stressed the draconian nature of an occupation order;(b) Re Y (children) (occupation order) [2000] 2 FCR 470, in which it stressed that an occupation order was one of last resort and that a recorder who had made such an order on the basis only that the situation in the home had to end sooner rather than later had acted impermissibly;
(c) G v. G (Occupation Order: Conduct) [2000] 2 FLR 36, in which a judge who, notwithstanding substantial friction in the home, had refused to make an occupation order was held to have reached a legitimate conclusion, particularly in the light of the fact that the wife's application for ancillary relief was fixed to be heard less than three months later; and
(d) Burke v. Burke [1987] 2 FLR 71, in which a judge's occupation order, directed to take effect eight weeks later, was set aside on the basis that, were the court to feel able to tolerate a delay of eight weeks, the case could hardly carry the degree of seriousness requisite for the making of an order at all.