COURT OF APPEAL (CIVIL DIVISION)
ON APPEAL FROM PORTSMOUTH COUNTY COURT
(HIS HONOUR JUDGE SHAWCROSS)
Strand, London, WC2A 2LL |
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B e f o r e :
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LORD JUSTICE WALL
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IN THE MATTER OF M (CHILDREN) |
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Ms L Harvey (instructed by Messrs Dyer, Burdett & Co) appeared on behalf of the Respondent Father.
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Lord Justice Wall:
"Twice now he has been the subject of serious allegations against him and on each occasion he has as I say 'got away with it' without suggesting he was necessarily guilty, but he has not ended up in prison as he could easily have done, and not only in prison but he would have lost the children and as he said repeatedly to the police when he was being interviewed by them that is the last thing he would really want."
"Now, my conclusion of this is that it is a difficult case. I have to weigh the risk that undoubtedly exists from the father's sexual preferences on the one hand against his undoubted ability as a father and the close relationship that he has with his children together with the undoubted disruption that will be caused by moving them now to live with their mother."
"38. I have come to the conclusion that the child and family reporter, the CAFCASS officer's views are correct. I think that this is not an appropriate time to make a move. I accept that there is a risk and I also take the view that there are safeguards in place. I am impressed by the fact that the children are not harmed at present. They are happy with the arrangements as they are at present. I am also satisfied, as the mother accepted in her evidence, that it would be disruptive to move them."
"(i.e. those that fall outside the realm of what is considered legal or conventional in consenting adult sexual relationships). It may be manifest in many ways, and it is irrelevant whether the manifestations of sexual deviation are accepted or enjoyed by the person."
"I do, however, take the view, as does the guardian, that this move would be I think almost inevitable if any further allegations were made against the father, whether they are true or false. So I dismiss the mother's application, but I do say this, that she was absolutely right to bring it, she was confronted, twice now she has been confronted with a very, very difficult situation, more than any mother I think can really be expected to deal with on her own. We are here as judges to hear the evidence and deal with this, that is what we are paid to do, and I think she was absolutely right to bring the matter before the court but having considered it carefully I am not going to go along with it.
I make two observations as far as the father is concerned. The first is this, that I hope he thinks that he is a lucky man to have not ended up in much more serious trouble than he has done and, secondly, this, if in fact I am right, and Dr D is right about the sexual preferences, this is not an illness or anything like that, it is not a sin even, it is a fact. Dr D' strong advice was that he could seek psychiatric help but he could only do so if he admitted it. I suggest and he can reject it if he wishes obviously, that he gives serious consideration to that. He could do so completely privately. He does not need to tell anybody. Nobody need know about it, and it could well be that it could help him and through helping him could help the children. As I say, it could be done without anybody knowing about it. So I merely make that observation in the light of what Dr D has said. My final decision is that the mother's application, although rightly brought, will be dismissed."
Lord Justice Ward:
Order: Application granted; appeal dismissed