IN THE COURT OF APPEAL (CIVIL DIVISION)
ON APPEAL FROM THE HIGH COURT OF JUSTICE
FAMILY DIVISION OF EXETER DISTRICT REGISTRY
(MR JUSTICE COLERIDGE)
Strand London, WC2 |
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B e f o r e :
LORD JUSTICE CARNWATH
LORD JUSTICE WALL
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IN THE MATTER OF J (Children) |
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MS J FARQUARSON (instructed by Messrs Stephens & Scown) appeared on behalf of the Father.
MS S TRUMPER (instructed by Messrs Stones) appeared on behalf of the R2 Child.
MR C GODFREY (instructed by Messrs Charlesworth Nicoll & Co) appeared on behalf of the Guardian.
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"This large family is awfully divided […] On top of that A and D are expressing extraordinarily strong views about not seeing their mother at the moment. Indeed A goes further and says that her present view is that she would never want to see her mother again."
"I have had the advantage which in this case I have found helpful and informative, of seeing the father give evidence [at some considerable length in the witness box]. I have also seen him act on behalf of himself on two previous occasions. I find that he is essentially an honest witness and evidence is genuine."
"The essential question is whether in the circumstances is it a practical solution."
"I find them overall of no evidential value to me at all and of no assistance in the difficult decisions which are here to make."
"If he does not now go to Bulgaria as he requests, at the end of this year, there will be no home because the grandparents' home will have been sold, there will be no schooling because the [Shabeer College] schooling cannot be afforded and cannot be paid for by the grandparents and furthermore he will not have open to him the opportunity which he very much wishes to take up. Accordingly if I refuse his application he will become dependent [for all those matters] entirely on state provision."
"I am urged in accordance with long established practice in these cases to scrutinise the father's plans with care and to satisfy myself that they are rational and properly considered. I am certainly well aware of my function.
"But this is a very unusual state of affairs where on the father's case there is almost no real option to the court other than the one he is proposing and in addition I am viewing the application against the sad fact that at the present time only Au is having a proper relationship with both her parents."
"The court has to face the realities of the present situation as they now present themselves to achieve a solution."
"If I refuse the father's application, the children, who strongly support it, even from their own childish standpoint, will unquestionably blame the mother for that refusal. In my judgment that will completely destroy for the time being any prospect of bridge-building between the mother and her two estranged children … Thus the better chance would be to grant the application."
"A decision is needed for the sake of the father and the children and, I think, the mother as well. These proceedings have been prolonged. There is a great deal to be said for not prolonging them a day longer than they need."
"I think that they are sufficiently clear and researched to be sanctioned by the court … In the end this case is not really about practical arrangements for the children in a foreign country."
"The suggestion by the mother that it would now be possible for D in the circumstances to move to the mother allowing the father and A to leave the country is simply completely unrealistic against the background of the total destruction of the children's relationship with their mother at the moment."
"That I do not think that they [that is the guardian and Dr Gay] have given enough consideration to the effect [of a refusal both] on the children's lives [and of their attitude to their mother or indeed to the effect or the possible loss of the father of this good job opportunity]. A delay of 6 months, which is what they advocate, would not clarify things and indeed it may be disastrous. The effect on contact and future of contact may be much worse than they credit."
Order: Application granted. Appeal dismissed.