COURT OF APPEAL (CIVIL DIVISION)
ON APPEAL FROM THE ILFORD COUNTY COURT
(His Honour Judge Platt)
Strand London WC2 Tuesday, 23rd April 2002 |
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"I find as a fact that both of them have been physically assaulted by their father during periods of contact on a number of different occasions".
"My finding is that the father has engaged in inappropriate touching of A's penis and displayed an unnatural interest in his genital areas. This has caused both A and J real embarrassment and distress."
"This demonstrates with chilling clarity the father's complete inability to move on. He remains living in the past, unable to accept that he is in any way to blame for the breakdown of the marriage or for the subsequent breakdown of contact".
"I accept of course as a starting point that it is the right of every child to grow up with a loving relationship with both father and mother and I do not for a moment suggest that this father in this case is in any different position by reason of the fact that he is not the biological father of these children. In fairness to the mother I should add that she has never sought to rely on this point. It is equally the duty of the court to foster and encourage this relationship and the duty of each parent to do likewise. But if over a period of time the court finds that the father is simply unable to develop that relationship, and that his involvement in the children's lives is detrimental to their overall development instead of fostering it, then the basic welfare principle must take precedence. It is the paramount consideration.
In this case the welfare principle demands that the court accepts the reality of the situation. The evidence in this case clearly shows that the children's welfare will be endangered by a resumption of direct contact and that termination of direct contact will positively benefit them."