IN THE COURT OF APPEAL (CIVIL DIVISION)
ON APPEAL FROM THE COLCHESTER COUNTY COURT
(His Honour Judge Brandt)
Strand London WC2 Wednesday, 15th May 2002 |
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B e f o r e :
LORD JUSTICE RIX
LADY JUSTICE ARDEN
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IN THE MATTER OF W (A CHILD) |
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The Respondent appeared in person.
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Wednesday, 15th May 2002
"(c)such further or other contact as may be agreed between the parties."
"Where in any family proceeding in which a question arises with respect to the welfare of any child it appears to the court that it may be appropriate for a care or supervision order to be made with respect to him, the court may direct the appropriate authority to undertake an investigation of the child's circumstances."
"Mr O'Toole for the mother says that this application is misconceived or at any rate premature, and even if it is neither of those things, he says that I should not deal with it today but that I should order various inquiries to be made. In particular he says that I should order a further welfare officer's report and I should order a psychiatric report on the mother. Those are submissions which are entitled to serious consideration and I will return to them in a moment."
"So far as Mrs Ould is concerned and indeed if the matter were put back for a further report to Dr Bailey, it seems to me that the only change of view they might have would be a change of view which is more favourable to the father and less favourable to the mother. I do not see any better outcome from the mother's point of view than that their opinions do not change. I am prepared to assume that Mrs Ould would still express a preference for residence with the mother, but I have to balance that against the mother's attitude to contact and the effect that that has on the welfare of the child. "
"Reluctantly I have to say that I have no intention of complying with any contact order."
"That really cannot be a good thing. It shows a closeness of dependency of children which in the case of E is undesirable enough at the age of rising five, but in R's case was really rather worrying."
"There are very obvious reservations about transferring residence of this child. The father accepts all of them. He does not need to be persuaded of them. He accepts that initially she is going to be very upset and that there is going to be a very difficult period of adjustment."
"First all, I simply bow to the mother's wishes and say, well, if that is your honestly held belief, nothing is going to shake you from it, then I must in effect rule that my order is not to be enforced and that Mr W is not ever to see his daughter again or not at any rate until she is grown up and may or may not wish to see him."
"The third choice is to say that this child need her father and the only way she is ever going to achieve that end is that she goes to live with him."
"It seems to me that I am faced starkly with those choices. I cannot see that putting them off to another day is going make them any less stark or any more easy to determine. As I have already said, the mother's opposition is not based on some primeval psychiatric difficulty. It is based on a belief which in my judgment is not sustainable. In the end I am driven to saying that this child should go to live with her father. I cannot see any alternative. There ought to be generous contact with the mother and her father. But that is the only way we are going to resolve this case and to be resolved in the interests of the welfare of the daughter. It is in the daughter's interests that she grows up with the father and with the mother and if this is the only way that it can be achieved, then so be it."