IN THE COURT OF APPEAL (CIVIL DIVISION)
ON APPEAL FROM THE FAMILY DIVISION
(MR JUSTICE HUGHES)
Strand London, WC2 Friday, 5th December 2002 |
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RE J (children) |
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Thursday, 5th December 2002
"Mr Scott-Manderson also advanced in his opening -- though did not, I think, press in his closing -- the invitation to me to exercise my discretion not to grant relief to the father because he is a claimant who is in contempt of court, having broken his promises.
"I have been persuaded not to send you to prison although you deserve it. I pay attention to the cost and inconvenience staying here has brought you. However, the real reason is that it is not in the interest of the boys that they were allowed to think they were the cause of their father going to prison but please understand there has to be an end to the arguing with Miss Kinnaird and you getting the better of her. It may not seem like it to you but you are the stronger of the two characters and you for the sake of the two boys must let her get on with her life."
"... the grave risk of harm to the children comes from the father's proven track record of inability either to accept decisions or to keep his word. That means that if the children are returned, they will once again be the centre of conflict between their parents. That by itself will or may harm them. Much more, it will be a conflict in which the father will not fight fairly and, because he will overbear the mother's will, her ability to parent the children will suffer and hence there will be grave risk of psychological harm and/or an intolerable situation for them."
"They are, however, the observations of a neutral observer and of one whose job it is to deal with families in conditions of dispute and tension."
"Neither this situation nor the much more frequent habit of the father of overbearing the mother's will, is in any sense beyond the regular diet of family justice systems in any country, and there is no reason to suppose that the Croatian system is unable to cope with it or with this father."
"It is, however, quite clear that the dominant feature of his view is his wish to live with his mother. He does not have a real objection to a return to Croatia in the mother's care."