COURT OF APPEAL (CIVIL DIVISION)
ON APPEAL FROM THE HIGH COURT OF JUSTICE
FAMILY DIVISION
(MR JUSTICE JOHNSON)
Strand London WC2 Friday, 23rd November 2001 |
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LORD JUSTICE RIX
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T (Children) |
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Friday, 23rd November 2001
"Father - All right darling. Say it nicely and clearly because on a tape you can't hear. Can you just tell me for sure, absolutely sure who you want to live with.
G - Daddy, I've told 1,000 times that I want to live with you.
Father - I know, and you've told lots of other people lots of time.
G - 1,020 times.
Father - Now, let's just go over who you've told. You've told the judges...
G - The judges...
Father - You've told the welfare people, plus Maria Garcia and her welfare people, yes?
G - I told the psychologist...
Father - When they came to the school..."
"We have not been able to do a psychological study on the father as he has repeatedly refused this. For this reason, we cannot assess whether he has any tendency towards psychological disturbance. The interviews with the Social Worker have shown that his opinion of Kathleen [the mother] is very negative. He considers her an incurable alcoholic. His opinion is projected on to the children, causing them to believe that their mother is unable to solve her problems or look after them properly. As a result of this, they think less of their mother and this may have a negative effect on the normal development of the children.
On the other hand, the father has emotional ties with the children, especially with G who idolises him. This appears to be influencing her desire to live with him, leading her to believe that his values are the only ones which count and to blame all the problems that have occurred in the family on the mother. All this has affected G, in particular. She is heavily influenced by her father. This prevents her from forming her own opinion about the family's problems and also hinders any form of dialogue between G and her mother, which is of vital importance to ensure the girl's normal psychological and social development."
"For the reasons stated above, we believe she is able to assume responsibility of her family and social life and to take physical custody of the children."
"There is no shadow of doubt that the father has played a conscious role in alienating the children from their mother, both before and after the abduction. The mother for her part has tried, but with less success, to do the opposite. But there comes a point at which, for better or for worse, an intelligent and articulate child's views, whatever their genesis, have to be taken for what they are - and the views of G, who at 11 is perceptibly both intelligent and articulate, are now made disturbingly apparent by the letter she wrote to her mother on 1 February 2000...
This is not the work of a child whose mind has simply been poisoned, though her father has played a sedulous part in shaping her views; nor does the letter itself show any obvious sign of being written under dictation or pressure from the father, though it will certainly have had his tacit or overt encouragement. It is the work, in my view, of a child made shrewd beyond her years by parental warfare and family breakdown, who detects in her mother's behaviour the pathos and shifting of a defeated woman. I have great sympathy for the mother, with all her failings, and none for the father, who seems to me a calculating individual accustomed to getting his own way and not too concerned who gets hurt in the process."
"... I consider there is more truth in this than Mrs T says. I expect there were periods when Mrs Trussler's care of the children was very good but then the marital disharmony intervened. At the same time I take very seriously what G said to me. The consequences of the parents' mutual warfare lay at both parents' doors. I do not excuse Mrs T's abuse of alcohol but I suggest it was contextually determined and that in different circumstances her level of risk is much less. Of course, this would be very difficult for G to know or appreciate."
"The question of G's maturity has been subject of debate with Dr McIvor, [her] Middle School and ultimately the Court of Appeal suggesting she is mature beyond her years. But they never explain what they mean by this. I agree G has had to cope with a dysfunctional family life beyond what one would hope any child could manage. In this way her experiences have been too adult for her. But maturity must mean something about wisdom, the capacity to evaluate information objectively, to avoid taking sides, to seek to resolve problems and conflict, to move beyond blame and retribution and to develop the capacity to think less of self and more of others.
In my view, G is a post pubertal early adolescent girl who is as mature as one could expect given her experiences so far, many of which have been very abnormal. I do not think she has a wisdom beyond her years, or a capacity to objectively evaluate the relationship of her parents beyond her years, or the capacity to weigh up truth and lies beyond her years or to consider the needs of her brother as separate to herself beyond her years.
So it is my view that this responsibility rests with the court to do this maturational task for her and it is a distortion of her emotional development and indeed needs at this point in her life to vest all decision making with her. I agree that much thought needs to be given to her views but that is not the same as allowing her [to] decide."
"In my view neither [child] is displaying evidence of psychiatric disturbance. G is a post pubertal adolescent girl with a parentified role within her family and a pseudo powerful position. She can be manipulative and in my view she is not mature beyond her years in that she does not demonstrate a wisdom indicative of mature adult function. I do not suggest G is lying.
T is a shy reserved child. He is sad and misses his mother. He keeps these feelings to himself. He maintains his academic performance though his social relationships may be suffering. T's demeanour and behaviour alters very much in the presence of his mother and he is an entirely different child."
"T needs to be with his mother, and G's views had become entrenched. I also recognise that this gives the parents the opportunity to continue to fight each other using the child they retain. If this happens the contact across the divide will break down and the split in the family inevitably become complete. It is now time for the parents to stop and to focus on cooperation."
"I would be extremely concerned about any action which undermines T's placement with the mother. Both children have a right to live outside the constant threat of litigation. T should be able to rebuild his life with his mother. I accept Dr Lucey's view that the litigation should cease and there be no further involvement of the court in the issues with respect to contact and residence. This only creates pressure for G in particular."