IN THE COURT OF APPEAL (CIVIL DIVISION)
ON APPEAL FROM PONTEFRACT COUNTY COURT
(His Honour Judge Ibbotson)
Strand London WC2 Thursday 8 November 2001 |
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B e f o r e :
Dame Elizabeth Butler-Sloss
LORD JUSTICE THORPE
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D (A child) |
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Thursday 8 November 2001
"So to sum up, those are the kind of reasons that she has put forward. I feel that [M] feels, as I have indicated in my final report, very very torn, very very torn in terms of what she might feel and what she might want. Although I feel she has happy memories of the time she spent with her father and paternal grandmother I think she feels the pressure of saying that she wants to see them any more - she's not prepared to say that at the moment. She's not prepared to say that because she knows that Mum doesn't approve and Mum has been made unhappy in some ways by those people."
"I think it is a very very difficult situation for M and I feel it's gone on for a long time now. I wouldn't say it is right to give up on children or to give up lightly in any way but I think there comes a point where you have to recognise that continued pressure becomes counter productive."
"I get the feeling - correct me if I am wrong, Miss Pearlman - I get the feeling that that is probably taking a sledge hammer to crack a nut in a case like this, is it not?"
"I would agree with you, your Honour. I don't feel that it is in [M's] interests at this stage."
" ... do you not think it valid that [M] has the chance, the opportunity, to develop her view with an independent child care solicitor and guardian in a non-intrusive, non-threatening way?"
"I think further intervention would be intrusive and possibly threatening in the sense that it might heighten [M's] anxiety."
"On the face of it that course might have its attractions because it would give [M] a voice and separate representation and somebody could make representations on her behalf. However, I am convinced, having considered the matter and listened to Miss Pearlman's evidence, that to take such a step in a case like this, which after all is not entirely unusual in that there is a mother who on the face of it is intransigent about contact, would be to take a sledge hammer to crack a nut."