FAMILY DIVISION
IN THE MATTER OF THE CHILD ABDUCTION AND CUSTODY ACT 1985
IN THE MATTER OF BS (A CHILD)
Strand, London, WC2A 2LL |
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B e f o r e :
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GS |
Applicant Father ('F') |
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MDS |
Respondent Mother ('M') |
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Crown Copyright ©
Mr Teertha Gupta QC :
"M seeks to defend these proceedings in reliance upon:
"a. Article 3: habitual residence;
b. Article 13a: consent/acquiescence;
c. Article 13b: grave risk/intolerability;
d. Article 13: child's objections." (which I have dealt with above)"
Consent
"The decision for our family to live in England was a mutual one. We decided to move to Brixton for a couple of weeks and try to get to know the country. We arrived in England on 31 July at Gatwick Airport. At first we stayed in a hotel called Belgravia Hotel until 4 August 2020, when GS returned to Italy. GS paid for our stay in this hotel by his card. Then my friends helped me with accommodation and offered us that we could stay at his place. On 4 August 2020 J picked us up from the hotel and took as by his car to his place. During my stay in England we were looking for a place to rent, school for BS and GP. BS was going to start school on 7 September 2020. However due to the Covid- 19 pandemic it was difficult to make plans as we would find that we were unable to get concrete answers to our queries. To avoid any confusion, I want to underline that GS travelled with us and agreed for our relocation. However due to the fact that he had to return to work he stayed with us only until 4 August 2020. He would not have left us in England if he did not agree BS staying in England….
Unfortunately, on 3 September 2020 GS's mother was due to have an eye surgery so my husband asked me to travel back to Italy for 3 months and help him to look after her. We stayed in Brixton during that time and returned to Italy on 1 September 2020. My plan was always to return to England and Gs was aware of it. The main purpose of our travel was to help his mother to get better and return to England as soon as possible to secure our life there."
30-7-2020
I MDS.
Born in the district (**). In agreement with my husband, GS. I am moving to live and my daughter studies, BS - in England, United Kingdom.
"The second time we came to England was on 28 February 2021. This move was triggered by GS's behaviour. One week before Christmas he told me to leave his parent's property. The reason for that was our argument between us when I told him about BS's behaviour. On that date when BS was passing me a tea bag which she intentionally had destroyed as she was told to do it by her grandmother. According to BS it was a funny joke, and she did not understand that this kind of behaviour towards me was not appropriate… Therefore, since that day I started preparing for our return to England."
"Yesterday afternoon, my daughter stayed with me at my parents' house and I helped her with her homework., and around 8.30 pm my wife joined us for dinner. At about 9.30pm my wife and daughter went home, while I stayed with my parents for the night. This morning around 9.30am, I noticed that strangely enough the shutters of the house were still closed, then around 10.00am I went up to see why they had not yet came down. When I entered the house I was amazed to find that my daughter and my wife were no longer inside. I checked all the rooms of the house noting that the double bed where they slept was unmade, the refrigerator in the kitchen was off, with the doors open and completely emptied. …
So far my wife and I have never had a big fight, just normal disagreements. She complained that she was no longer happy and suggested that she might go to England, but I tried to dissuade her by telling her that I would consider it in the future… My wife doesn't have many friends so I don't know who could have taken them to the airport."
The Law
"to secure the prompt return of children wrongfully removed to or retained in any Contracting State."
"The removal or the retention of a child is to be considered wrongful where –
(a) it is in breach of rights of custody attributed to a person, an institution or any other body, either jointly or alone, or under the law of the State in which the child was habitually resident immediately before the removal or retention; and
(b) at the time of removal or retention those rights were actually exercised, either jointly or alone, or would have been so exercised but for the removal or retention.
"The rights of custody mentioned in subparagraph (a) above, may arise in particular by operation of law or by reason of judicial or administrative decision, or by reason of an agreement having legal effect under the law of that State."
"Where a child has been wrongfully removed or retained in terms of Article 3 and, at the date of the commencement of the proceedings before the judicial or administrative authority of the Contracting State where the child is, a period of less than one year has elapsed from the date of the wrongful removal or retention, the authority concerned shall order the return of the child forthwith."
"Notwithstanding the provisions of the preceding Article, the judicial or administrative authority of the requested State is not bound to order the return of the child if the person, institution or other body which opposes its return establishes that –
(a) the person, institution or other body having the care of the person of the child was not actually exercising the custody rights at the time of removal or retention, or had consented to or subsequently acquiesced in the removal or retention; or
(b) there is a grave risk that his or her return would expose the child to physical or psychological harm or otherwise place the child in an intolerable situation.
The judicial or administrative authority may also refuse to order the return of the child if it finds that the child objects to being returned and has attained an age and degree of maturity at which it is appropriate to take account of its views. In considering the circumstances referred to in this Article, the judicial and administrative authorities shall take into account the information relating to the social background of the child provided by the Central Authority or other competent authority of the child's habitual residence."
"48. In my judgment the following principles should be deduced from these authorities. "
(1) Consent to the removal of the child must be clear and unequivocal.
(2) Consent can be given to the removal at some future but unspecified time or upon the happening of some future event.
(3) Such advance consent must, however, still be operative and in force at the time of the actual removal.
(4) The happening of the future event must be reasonably capable of ascertainment. The condition must not have been expressed in terms which are too vague or uncertain for both parties to know whether the condition will be fulfilled. Fulfilment of the condition must not depend on the subjective determination of one party, for example, "Whatever you may think, I have concluded that the marriage has broken down and so I am free to leave with the child." The event must be objectively verifiable.
(5) Consent, or the lack of it, must be viewed in the context of the realities of family life, or more precisely, in the context of the realities of the disintegration of family life. It is not to be viewed in the context of nor governed by the law of contract.
(6) Consequently consent can be withdrawn at any time before actual removal. If it is, the proper course is for any dispute about removal to be resolved by the courts of the country of habitual residence before the child is removed.
(7) The burden of proving the consent rests on him or her who asserts it.
(8) The enquiry is inevitably fact specific and the facts and circumstances will vary infinitely from case to case.
(9) The ultimate question is a simple one even if a multitude of facts bear upon the answer. It is simply this: had the other parent clearly and unequivocally consented to the removal?
"55. There is no dispute in this case that an effective consent to removal can be given in advance and thus can in principle be given in June to a removal in October. I am clear however that the consent has to subsist at the time of removal. I am full of admiration for the analysis of 'advance consent' offered by Bodey J in [29], [30], [32] and [41] of his decision in Re L (Abduction: Future Consent) [2007] EWHC 2181, [2008] 1 FLR 914, quoted by my Lord at [47] above; and I adopt the analysis of Bodey J as my starting-point. In argument to us Mr Newton suggested that Bodey J was wrong to imply, at [30], that consent could always be withdrawn prior to removal. He submitted that whether an advance consent could be withdrawn depended upon the way in which it was expressed and/or the circumstances in which it was given and/or whether in the interim the other parent had acted upon it to her disadvantage. In some ways it was an attractive submission but I reject it. That the consent has to subsist at the time of removal (or retention) seems to me also to have been recognised by Hale J in Re K (Abduction: Consent) [1997] 2 FLR 212, in which the father's withdrawal of consent came too late in that it was responsive to the mother's communication to him of the retention. Once we allow arguments to the effect that, although the left-behind parent had, prior to removal, clearly purported to withdraw an earlier consent, he was not entitled to do so, legal concepts crowd in upon the straightforward enquiry; and the stance taken by parents on the ground becomes rewritten as the stance which the law deems them to have taken. Decisions about children are best taken without such artifice."
56. Although, however, we should accept that, prior to removal, a refusal to consent may replace an earlier consent and, conversely, that a consent may replace an earlier refusal to consent, we must confront the consequential difficulties. They arise in particular because, when intimate human relationships break down, our emotions lead us – whether in anger, jealousy, pain or a wish to wound – to say things which we do not mean and/or which are entirely inconsistent even from one hour to the next. Take a father who has clearly consented to a removal of the children with the mother to England. Is he to be taken to have withdrawn his consent because he rushes to the airport and there shouts "You can't go"? Of course not. Or take a father who has clearly not consented to a removal to England. Is he to be taken to have consented because, when the mother is piling the children into the taxi which will take them to the airport, he unexpectedly returns home and, in his shocked distress, tells her, in his vernacular, that she can take them wherever she pleases? Of course not. So the task of the judge in weighing a defence that an advance consent subsisted can prove difficult; and he will need to call upon his understanding of how, with all our imperfections, we human beings operate. Thus if, as here, the defendant asserts the other's advance consent to a removal, the judge has to persuaded that in reality it subsisted at the time of removal.
57. It seems to me that the most obvious (albeit not always decisive) indication of whether in reality an advance consent subsisted at the time of removal is whether the removal was clandestine. I accept that a consent to the removal of children within Article 13 does not have to include a consent to their removal on the particular day, or by the particular means or more generally in the particular circumstances, on, by or in which the other parent elects to remove them. Nevertheless a clandestine removal will usually be indicative of the absence in reality of subsistence of the consent; see, for example, the judgment of my Lord in this court in P v. P (Abduction: Acquiescence) [1998] 2 FLR 835 at 836H – 837A.
"25. The position can be summarised in this way:
(1) The removing parent must prove consent to the civil standard. The inquiry is fact-specific and the ultimate question is: had the remaining parent clearly and unequivocally consented to the removal?
(2) The presence or absence of consent must be viewed in the context of the common sense realities of family life and family breakdown, and not in the context of the law of contract. The court will focus on the reality of the family's situation and consider all the circumstances in making its assessment. A primary focus is likely to be on the words and actions of the remaining parent. The words and actions of the removing parent may also be a significant indicator of whether that parent genuinely believed that consent had been given, and consequently an indicator of whether consent had in fact been given.
(3) Consent must be clear and unequivocal but it does not have to be given in writing or in any particular terms. It may be manifested by words and/or inferred from conduct.
(4) A person may consent with the gravest reservations, but that does not render the consent invalid if the evidence is otherwise sufficient to establish it.
(5) Consent must be real in the sense that it relates to a removal in circumstances that are broadly within the contemplation of both parties.
(6) Consent that would not have been given but for some material deception or misrepresentation on the part of the removing parent will not be valid.
(7) Consent must be given before removal. Advance consent may be given to removal at some future but unspecified time or upon the happening of an event that can be objectively verified by both parties. To be valid, such consent must still be operative at the time of the removal.
(8) Consent can be withdrawn at any time before the actual removal. The question will be whether, in the light of the words and/or conduct of the remaining parent, the previous consent remained operative or not.
(9) The giving or withdrawing of consent by a remaining parent must have been made known by words and/or conduct to the removing parent. A consent or withdrawal of consent of which a removing parent is unaware cannot be effective."
a) The letter of consent dated 30.7.20 (the signature to which is contested) is not clear enough for such a momentous thing as relocating a child to England, it is not dated 28.2.21 in any event and so can hardly be said to be proof of a clear and unequivocal consent by the father 7 months later after the child had attended Italian school, having lived all of her life in Italy;
b) There is no other evidence that the father clearly and unequivocally consented to BS's move to England in February 2021;
c) The child attending Italian school and being removed mid-term and the other factors identified by me in paragraph 14 above point to a hurried , unplanned departure, which in turn indicates a non-consensual one;
d) The clandestine removal;
e) The stated trigger for the departure- it simply did not amount to a consent to international relocation : although I add here that upon further inquiry from me, Mr Edwards confirms that the mother took BS to have pre-travel covid tests on the 24th February (4 days prior to departure and obviously without the father's knowledge and consent- this means that this was indeed a clandestine, pre-planned unilateral removal, and at first blush, with scant regard for the child's welfare (e.g. schooling) and her relationship with her father and Italian family- but this latter point is a matter for the Italian Juvenile Court to look into at the welfare stage in the months to come);
f) What the mother told the carabinieri as mentioned above (i.e. not mentioning anything about consent);
g) The father's conduct post the removal in no way indicates a continuing consent, quite the opposite;
h) The child's own ambivalence in staying in England- had this been a consensual move, she would have been prepared months in advance: and
i) The gap in time between July 2020 and 28 February 2021 in itself would vitiate any consent if there had been one, which I find there clearly was not. One is reminded of Wilson LJ as was and his more extreme example in Re PJ cited above and repeated here:
"Or take a father who has clearly not consented to a removal to England. Is he to be taken to have consented because, when the mother is piling the children into the taxi which will take them to the airport, he unexpectedly returns home and, in his shocked distress, tells her, in his vernacular, that she can take them wherever she pleases? Of course not."
Article 13(b)
"M is also likely to be arrested if she returns to Italy (see confirmation of criminal complaint at [C137]). F makes clear in his first statement that his complaint to the Carabinieri is still open [C118-119]. F has also applied to the court in Rome for an order for suspension of M's parental rights [C119; C147]. M is very likely to be separated from BS, one way or another, even if she does return to Italy."
"In Re E (Abduction: Custody Appeal) [2011] UKSC 27, [2012] 1 AC 144 (which I have re-read) Lady Hale and Lord Wilson JJSC held that the following approach should be undertaken when considering whether the Art. 13(b) exception is made out:"
a. First: the burden of proof lies with the "person, institution or other body" which opposes the child's return. It is for them to produce evidence to substantiate one of the exceptions to the civil standard of proof (§32);
b. Second, the risk to the child must have reached such a level of seriousness as to be characterised as "grave" (§33); and
c. Third:
"the words "physical or psychological harm" are not qualified. However, they do gain colour from the alternative "or otherwise " placed "in an intolerable situation" …"'Intolerable' is a strong word, but when applied to a child must mean 'a situation which this particular child in these particular circumstances should not be expected to tolerate'". Those words were carefully considered and can be applied just as sensibly to physical or psychological harm as to any other situation. Every child has to put up with a certain amount of rough and tumble, discomfort and distress. It is part of growing up. But there are some things which it is not reasonable to expect a child to tolerate" (§34); and
d. Fourth, article 13(b) is looking to the future: the situation as it would be if the child were to be returned forthwith to her home country (§35).
"40. As a first step, the court should consider whether the assertions are of such a nature, and of sufficient detail and substance, that they could constitute a grave risk. Broad or general assertions are very unlikely to be sufficient. (The allegations of racism in Italy for example I place in this category, the issue is: whether the child is likely to be separated from her mother on return and whether that situation would be intolerable to BS).
41. If it proceeds to the second step, the court determines whether it is satisfied that the grave risk exception to the child's return has been established by examining and evaluating the evidence presented by the person opposing the child's return / information gathered, and by taking into account the evidence / information pertaining to protective measures available in the State of habitual residence. This means that even where the court determines that there is sufficient evidence or information demonstrating elements of potential harm or of an intolerable situation, it must nevertheless duly consider the circumstances as a whole, including whether adequate measures of protection are available or might need to be put in place to protect the child from the grave risk of such harm or intolerable situation, when evaluating whether the grave risk exception has been established.
42. Once this evaluation is made:
– where the court is not satisfied that the evidence presented / information gathered, including in respect of protective measures, establishes a grave risk, it orders the return of the child;
– where the court is satisfied that the evidence presented / information gathered, including in respect of protective measures, establishes a grave risk, it is not bound to order the return of the child, which means that it is within the court's discretion to order return of the child nonetheless."
"[43] First, in respect of Ms Cooper's submissions about the efficacy of undertakings given to the English court, it is clear that, in deciding what weight can be placed on them, the court has to take into account the extent to which they are likely to be effective. This applies both in terms of compliance and in terms of consequences, including remedies, in the absence of compliance. The issue is their effectiveness which is not confined to their enforceability: see, for example, H v K and Others (Abduction: Undertakings) [2017] EWHC 1141 (Fam), [2018] 1 FLR 700, at para [61]. In saying this, because I acknowledge the concerns that have been expressed about the court's perhaps giving insufficient weight to the point made by Ms Cooper and the need for caution when relying on undertakings, I make clear that I am not saying that enforceability is not an issue, only that it forms one element of the court's assessment."
i. To pay a minimum of €300 per month to the Respondent Mother for her to meet her day to day expenses and for any payment to be made prior to the return for the first month. I can do this for a maximum of 3 months.
ii. To provide a property which I own for the Respondent Mother and the child B to live in. I would provide details and pictures of the properties.
iii. To pay for flights from the UK to Italy for the Respondent Mother and child B and to pay for any covid testing requirement that is still in place
iv. Not to remove the child B from the Respondent Mother.
v. Not to use or threaten violence against the Respondent Mother
vi. Not to intimidate, harass or pester the Respondent Mother.
vii. Not to communicate with the Respondent other than for the purposes of communicating with the child B or for contact.
viii. Not to support any criminal prosecution of the Respondent arising out of these proceedings and removal of the child.
ix. Not to issue any without notice applications or to have a hearing on these matters within 14 days of the Respondent's return to Italy
x. I would agree to lodge the return Order and Undertakings with the Italian Court prior to return. I also agree to provide English translations.
xi. I will enrol my daughter in school upon her return. I would intend to do this in the locality.
I will comply with these undertakings for 3 months or until a Court or Tribunal in Italy makes an Order to the contrary.
These undertakings are given without prejudice and are not to be seen as an admission of factual matters that remain in dispute between the parties.
14.9.21 approved on 26.9.21